OK, CALL ME STUPID, CALL ME SILLY, CALL ME NARROW MIND, PETTY OR WHATEVER, I DUN GIVE A SHIT! Just wanna pour my frustration and anger here!
Normally, mom will activate me to help out with everything from setting up the candles to burning of joss sticks to praying to burning.
Today, I don't know for what F reason/s, my BIL want to merge the offering he got for his father, mother etc.. His entire family join in the process. Worst still, one of them is not a sincere in praying, her mentality is just to play with fire.
As the public bin for burning is limited, all of them including my mom gather round it to burn the paper stuffs that was meant for the dead. As we have about 6 sets of offerings for 5 love ones excluding 3 sets from my BIL's side, I decided not to crowd in together and wait till the offering meant for MY DAD!
Here's the pissed off part...
I guessed somehow or another, my buay song was written on my face cos i HATE waiting especially when one of them is actually "playing not praying", my mom suddenly just say hey B ah, ok liao, thank Q, I was shocked! After that, the same thing came out from my sis's mouth Thanks!.
NAI BEI, Hello, what is he F meaning of this??? Helped them carry the things down, set up the things, pray and F off is it??? half way through the process..... SIGH...
Actually, wanted to bath 1st before going over to Viv's place, but to avoid facing all of them and instead of showing the buay song face to Tu Lan face, I packed my stuffs and left home within 5 mins.
On my way, msg my darling and preamp her that I was just pissed off by some ppl hence my mood will be affected. She was very understanding. When I reached her home, I've received a big hug from her in her room. Told her to read this blog later as I do not want to say it out.
Ok, that's it for now.
Dad, forgive me for I didn't get the chance to burn the offering to you. I'M SORRY!
Friday, September 18, 2009
Monday, September 14, 2009
What a year! You win some, you lose some
This year is totally different from the 37 yrs I had altogether as I had a partner by the name of Vivian Hoo.
Life is great having her around, her kns behavior, her positive outlook in life, the cheerfulness that was inbuilt her and last but not least, the love, care and concern for me is sooooo ....... (no word to describe)hahhaah...
This is the thing that I consider that I won. I won her heart!
However, the things that I now lost which I have no idea how did that happened was my health.
First, I quit smoking, which by right I should be healthier. However, I might be worst than now if I were to carry on smoking.
Second, I seem to fall sick easily especially this year 2009. Suspect it could be due to the fengshui of my office. (You know, like 8 words don't match and curse one another?)
Bottom line, I guess I still love this year as my winning is still better because when I lost, my winning will come and pacify and sayang me.
I just have to drink more healthy stuffs, exercise more so that whatever I may have lost this year, it will not happen as often next year although the chances of losing is greater when the numeric figure in age grows.
Well, Why am I blogging today? Was on MC for today and tomorrow because I'm sick! Anal leakage!
Things that I've done today;
1) Clear some of the shit that my buddy left behind. Still got tons to clear. Fortunately, I have Viv by my side who voluntarily help me out. (physically, mentally, and financially) Honestly, I feel so damn bad though she will tell me don't be. But still... you know.... Well, Thanks Darling for your support, we will settle ourselves once this shit is done. I promise you.
2)Go wash my maid. Been a long time since I last done so. Felt so sorry that she has been serving me faithfully and yet I have not done my part as the employer to treat her well by checking how is she doing, clean her up when she is dirty etc... (Finally, got the chance to do so.) Will get Viv involve when the chance arises. ;)
Oh Crap, is that all I've done today?? So inefficient. Oh hack, who cares, as long as I feel that I did a bit of things which can help me move forward, I should be happy.
Ok, That's all for now. Till next time when I blog, which I have no idea when...hahha... ciao!
Life is great having her around, her kns behavior, her positive outlook in life, the cheerfulness that was inbuilt her and last but not least, the love, care and concern for me is sooooo ....... (no word to describe)hahhaah...
This is the thing that I consider that I won. I won her heart!
However, the things that I now lost which I have no idea how did that happened was my health.
First, I quit smoking, which by right I should be healthier. However, I might be worst than now if I were to carry on smoking.
Second, I seem to fall sick easily especially this year 2009. Suspect it could be due to the fengshui of my office. (You know, like 8 words don't match and curse one another?)
Bottom line, I guess I still love this year as my winning is still better because when I lost, my winning will come and pacify and sayang me.
I just have to drink more healthy stuffs, exercise more so that whatever I may have lost this year, it will not happen as often next year although the chances of losing is greater when the numeric figure in age grows.
Well, Why am I blogging today? Was on MC for today and tomorrow because I'm sick! Anal leakage!
Things that I've done today;
1) Clear some of the shit that my buddy left behind. Still got tons to clear. Fortunately, I have Viv by my side who voluntarily help me out. (physically, mentally, and financially) Honestly, I feel so damn bad though she will tell me don't be. But still... you know.... Well, Thanks Darling for your support, we will settle ourselves once this shit is done. I promise you.
2)Go wash my maid. Been a long time since I last done so. Felt so sorry that she has been serving me faithfully and yet I have not done my part as the employer to treat her well by checking how is she doing, clean her up when she is dirty etc... (Finally, got the chance to do so.) Will get Viv involve when the chance arises. ;)
Oh Crap, is that all I've done today?? So inefficient. Oh hack, who cares, as long as I feel that I did a bit of things which can help me move forward, I should be happy.
Ok, That's all for now. Till next time when I blog, which I have no idea when...hahha... ciao!
Friday, July 3, 2009
3rd July 2009 @ Brewerkz (Riversidepoint)
Such a crazy guy. Sitting @ Brewerkz, logging on to their free wifi and blogging while waiting for my dearest to finish her work.
Time now is 6.40. SHe should be coming down @ abt 7 but I give her extra 1/2 hr....... 7.30.. Haha
Well, it's a good location, I'm trying to find a new job, blogging, drinking beer and my eyes are wondering around..heheee..WOw.. chio bu...hahha..
Having said that, Just to recap, on 21 June @ P.Ubin with my family. Viv is such a wonderful gal that she blend in so well with everyone. Doubt I have the ablility to do so.. we had a wonderful time together with everyone.
I really felt helpless when Viv is bitching about her work. The only thing as her boyfriend is to support in every way I can. By showering her with extra care & concern, but Viv, if you are reading this, don't do it frequently as my energy level is limited..hahah.. :)
Oh ya, Damn recalling bad incident. Trying to be the perfectionist and good driver, we had sort of a unhappy time when her mom wanted to go Plaza Sing for some appt. For those who knows me, I love driving fast, but her mom's concern is safety, hence I decided to get Viv to drive so that her mom won't nag nag nag.... haha...
But when Viv behind the wheel, my unhappiness shown when she stopped @ the yellow box twice. For me, if I see that, I would have stare at the other driver, but since I am in the car that was in the yellow box, I felt that I was the one committing it, hence automatically show the pai sei action... This trigger unhappiness to Viv.
Honestly, when it comes to argue or quarrel or explaining my actions or whatever shit that involves unhappiness... I'm sucks at it.
I made her cry behind her shade because she was hurt by my paisei actions.
There were this comment made from her and myself..
Viv: Next time I won't drive your car.
Me: Next time I won't sit in the car you drive.
However, thinking back, I would say it was a 50 -50 kind of expectation from each other.
My expectation, expect her to drive like me,
Her expectation, ...I don't know...haha
Anyway, I'm glad that we resolved this disagreement in a very peaceful way. (Reasons, we love each and appreciate each other very much)
Oh well, despite that incident, we still have a wonderful relationship together.
Time now is 7.00pm. she called me earlier @ 6.50pm saying her boss wants more things from her and asked if I wanna go up to her office. I told her I will let her know if I wanna go up. Cos I know her, If I go up, she will be more nervous and panic becos of my presence.
I guess I will just have to order another beer and carry on waiting for her...hahaha..
Happy TGIF!!! ;)
Time now is 6.40. SHe should be coming down @ abt 7 but I give her extra 1/2 hr....... 7.30.. Haha
Well, it's a good location, I'm trying to find a new job, blogging, drinking beer and my eyes are wondering around..heheee..WOw.. chio bu...hahha..
Having said that, Just to recap, on 21 June @ P.Ubin with my family. Viv is such a wonderful gal that she blend in so well with everyone. Doubt I have the ablility to do so.. we had a wonderful time together with everyone.
I really felt helpless when Viv is bitching about her work. The only thing as her boyfriend is to support in every way I can. By showering her with extra care & concern, but Viv, if you are reading this, don't do it frequently as my energy level is limited..hahah.. :)
Oh ya, Damn recalling bad incident. Trying to be the perfectionist and good driver, we had sort of a unhappy time when her mom wanted to go Plaza Sing for some appt. For those who knows me, I love driving fast, but her mom's concern is safety, hence I decided to get Viv to drive so that her mom won't nag nag nag.... haha...
But when Viv behind the wheel, my unhappiness shown when she stopped @ the yellow box twice. For me, if I see that, I would have stare at the other driver, but since I am in the car that was in the yellow box, I felt that I was the one committing it, hence automatically show the pai sei action... This trigger unhappiness to Viv.
Honestly, when it comes to argue or quarrel or explaining my actions or whatever shit that involves unhappiness... I'm sucks at it.
I made her cry behind her shade because she was hurt by my paisei actions.
There were this comment made from her and myself..
Viv: Next time I won't drive your car.
Me: Next time I won't sit in the car you drive.
However, thinking back, I would say it was a 50 -50 kind of expectation from each other.
My expectation, expect her to drive like me,
Her expectation, ...I don't know...haha
Anyway, I'm glad that we resolved this disagreement in a very peaceful way. (Reasons, we love each and appreciate each other very much)
Oh well, despite that incident, we still have a wonderful relationship together.
Time now is 7.00pm. she called me earlier @ 6.50pm saying her boss wants more things from her and asked if I wanna go up to her office. I told her I will let her know if I wanna go up. Cos I know her, If I go up, she will be more nervous and panic becos of my presence.
I guess I will just have to order another beer and carry on waiting for her...hahaha..
Happy TGIF!!! ;)
Friday, May 15, 2009
15th May 2009 and before that.
Wow, been a long while since I last blog.
Well, May things happened this few mouths. I will try to see if I'm able to remember and make it short.
Maybe counting backward is easier. ok.
14th May ~ Brainless toilet contractor
1) Started to hack the Kitchen toilet on 11th May. Removed the bowl, the door and tiles. Flatten the cement surface.
2) Put on a layer of water proof sealing before they lay the tiles on 12th May.
3) Installed the new toilet bowl and necessary pipping on 13th May.
4) On 14th May, They began to hack the master bedroom toilet without installing the door for the kitchen toilet. Mum called me. I called up the contractor's office and asked them. This lady told me the instruction was to install a door, but that is meant for the master bedroom one. WTF, that contractor who came that day measured the kitchen toilet, told me to removed it and replaced with another door now tell me the door is meant for the room one??? Who in the right frame of mind would asked to remove the door and do not want to install another one. No choice but to F them.
Assigned this job to my sis who was on leave and at home helping me to monitor them.
She did hell of a good job pushing and screwing them. Wow, I'm impressed. She did mentioned to them. If the door is not here by 4pm, then we will not pay a single cents. Guess what, the joker came with the door at 3.45pm. My sis was disappointed and asked them, why you come so early har? The guy replied, orrh.. cos office tell me I have to be here by 4pm...haha...
Bedroom toilet should finished by this sat 16th May. NO MORE BATHTUB!!! sob sob...
13th May ~ My dearest sister Doris birthday.
1) Viv secured an interview for job. It ended around 7+pm. She took a cab and spend $20+ for it just to join us for a simple celebration for Doris.
2) MRT malfunction, forcing Mavis & Hawker to alight @ AMK & took a cab back to join us.
3) Francis's car, battery flat. No choice, he got to grab a bus and rushed down from Woodlands.
Overall, despite all these, we managed to have a happy and simple celebration for Doris.
Make this real short.
In the month of April & May, Viv helped me a lot to settle the mess that we (Lawrence, Kevin and myself made in the year 2003)
In short, her efforts, support in term of moral and financially will not be forgotten. Now got to see what else I need to do to get this settle fast and have a piece of mind.
Thank you very much for your support and help darling.
That's it for now...
Well, May things happened this few mouths. I will try to see if I'm able to remember and make it short.
Maybe counting backward is easier. ok.
14th May ~ Brainless toilet contractor
1) Started to hack the Kitchen toilet on 11th May. Removed the bowl, the door and tiles. Flatten the cement surface.
2) Put on a layer of water proof sealing before they lay the tiles on 12th May.
3) Installed the new toilet bowl and necessary pipping on 13th May.
4) On 14th May, They began to hack the master bedroom toilet without installing the door for the kitchen toilet. Mum called me. I called up the contractor's office and asked them. This lady told me the instruction was to install a door, but that is meant for the master bedroom one. WTF, that contractor who came that day measured the kitchen toilet, told me to removed it and replaced with another door now tell me the door is meant for the room one??? Who in the right frame of mind would asked to remove the door and do not want to install another one. No choice but to F them.
Assigned this job to my sis who was on leave and at home helping me to monitor them.
She did hell of a good job pushing and screwing them. Wow, I'm impressed. She did mentioned to them. If the door is not here by 4pm, then we will not pay a single cents. Guess what, the joker came with the door at 3.45pm. My sis was disappointed and asked them, why you come so early har? The guy replied, orrh.. cos office tell me I have to be here by 4pm...haha...
Bedroom toilet should finished by this sat 16th May. NO MORE BATHTUB!!! sob sob...
13th May ~ My dearest sister Doris birthday.
1) Viv secured an interview for job. It ended around 7+pm. She took a cab and spend $20+ for it just to join us for a simple celebration for Doris.
2) MRT malfunction, forcing Mavis & Hawker to alight @ AMK & took a cab back to join us.
3) Francis's car, battery flat. No choice, he got to grab a bus and rushed down from Woodlands.
Overall, despite all these, we managed to have a happy and simple celebration for Doris.
Make this real short.
In the month of April & May, Viv helped me a lot to settle the mess that we (Lawrence, Kevin and myself made in the year 2003)
In short, her efforts, support in term of moral and financially will not be forgotten. Now got to see what else I need to do to get this settle fast and have a piece of mind.
Thank you very much for your support and help darling.
That's it for now...
Friday, March 27, 2009
25/3/09~ My 1st weekend without my Viv
Viv set off to Japan with her mom today morning to watch cherry blossom. She will be away for 6 to 7 days. Be back on 1st April 09. I already started missing her.
So sweet of her, call me when she was @ SG Airport. Her flight was supposed to take off @ 9.50am but ended up took off @ 10.08am. I know as I was on the sg airport departure info as well as Narita airport info until she touches down in Tokyo safe and sound. I know the plane touches down safely before she sms me to let me know she has touched down.
Well, 1st weekend all alone without her (ever since we dated). I will try to find something useful to do... like, sleep...lol
Oh ya, my lappy was down for a few weeks liao, now I'm using my sis kneetop to enter this blog while waiting for my new lappy to arrive as I have signed up with Singtel Broadboard whcih they have installed for me on 24/3/09 plus 9 mth free Mio TV.
Ok, my sis kneetop is 10" hence I better stop as my eyes are cross now...haha..
Waiting for you to be back honey... ;)
So sweet of her, call me when she was @ SG Airport. Her flight was supposed to take off @ 9.50am but ended up took off @ 10.08am. I know as I was on the sg airport departure info as well as Narita airport info until she touches down in Tokyo safe and sound. I know the plane touches down safely before she sms me to let me know she has touched down.
Well, 1st weekend all alone without her (ever since we dated). I will try to find something useful to do... like, sleep...lol
Oh ya, my lappy was down for a few weeks liao, now I'm using my sis kneetop to enter this blog while waiting for my new lappy to arrive as I have signed up with Singtel Broadboard whcih they have installed for me on 24/3/09 plus 9 mth free Mio TV.
Ok, my sis kneetop is 10" hence I better stop as my eyes are cross now...haha..
Waiting for you to be back honey... ;)
27 March 09~ The day my Mistress of 3 yrs was scratched
27/3/09~ A day to remember. My mistress, Lanceria who was with me for almost 3 yrs was scratched by me when I was behind an alley of a one way road. Viv was with me when this happened. She lead me to this one way street, after going in, she suggested me to do a 4 to 5 point turn as it is an one way alley, I find the alley was narrowed so decided to carry on and hopefully get out of there before another car come from the other direction. Damn, it was a WRONG DECISION by ME. 3/4 before reaching the end, one car turn in. F, I have no choice but to use "R"acing gear as he got the right of way, as there was an old man on my left squatting down picking up cans, in order not to scare him or accidentally bang onto him, I keep more to my right and reverse, suddenly, a loud scratching sound from my right side and I immediately shouted FUCK, that's it, I know I scratched my mistress already. Forward a bit, then reverse again and got into a small "T" alley junction. Did a 3 point turn, then head out feeling so Tu Lan. Immediately, in the car was total silence. Viv kept quiet because she felt guilty by directing me into that alley. My heart melted seeing her like this and instead of her pacifying me,I have to pacify her. She suggested that I go to the gas station nearest to her home so that I can take a look at the damage I have done. Mentally, I was thinking to myself, that's it for the whole left side of my mistress. When we reached the gas station, she refused to get out and see and ask me to go take a look @ it myself. I stepped out, look at the damage and burst into laughter. Open the car door and told her to come out and take a look. She was tearing @ this stage. I gently lead her out of my car and look @ it.
Only my front right bumper was scratch. Quite deep though. She insist that she pay for the damage so I have to agree to her. I laughed is because I was expecting it to be worst. I was glad the damaged was minimum.
Took her back to her place, comfort her, pamper her and sayang her, making her feel better before I head for home.
Well Lanceria, I'm sorry I have disfigured you due to my lousy reverse skill. We will give you a cosmestic touch up soon. hahaha
Only my front right bumper was scratch. Quite deep though. She insist that she pay for the damage so I have to agree to her. I laughed is because I was expecting it to be worst. I was glad the damaged was minimum.
Took her back to her place, comfort her, pamper her and sayang her, making her feel better before I head for home.
Well Lanceria, I'm sorry I have disfigured you due to my lousy reverse skill. We will give you a cosmestic touch up soon. hahaha
Monday, March 16, 2009
1st meet up with Viv's M'sia frd and 2nd Outing with Viv's family members
This is going to be a short one. Yesterday, 15th Mar 2009, we met up and had lunch at PS Cafe with one of Viv new friend from Penang whom she got to know through her cousin's wedding. It's strange that this meal is just eat grass and flour. Viv's friend by the name of May were / is a Lawyer (whatever it is or were). However, I was surprised that she do not have the bloddy arrogant stuck up air around her. Viv paid for the lunch @ PS Cafe, then we proceed to Vivo where we bought a bottle of wine and two bottles of mineral water. May insisted on paying for it, so she paid for it. While walking pass OCK, Viv says she wanted sotong head, so we went there and bought 3 sticks, this time, I insist on paying as pai sei also mah.. though I pay for the cheapest one.. haha... Then we proceed to the chop (Principles) where May wanted to tried out some clothes. SO Viv & I left her there and we went to starbucks to get 3 cups for our bottle of wine. When we came back, May was no where in sight. Viv tried calling her but her phone was off, we searched around like searching for a lost little girl. We spend abt 20 mins when smart Viv decided to sms her. She replied saying she was in the dressing room. (Wahh.. who can hide in the dressing room for so long?) I was standing there like guard of honour @ the Istana and didn't see her coming out from the dressing room to get another dress to try.
So Viv went in and I told Viv I will be siting outside cos I shy mah..
After a while, they came out and guess what. She's spend S$500++ in a single shop. I was actually stung. Anyway, Viv was smart and ask her to borrow her receipt so that I can get points for my parking. TMD, the max per day is only 5 points. $50 to get 1 point = (meaning to say, regardless of you spending $2500 or $250 that day, you can only claim up to $250)
To make things short,we proceed to rooftop to TCSS, drink our wine. around 6.40pm, we drove her to redhill MRT station where she was meeting up another friend of hers. It was fun meeting ppl who are humble and nice. Nice meeting her too.
Ok, then we proceed to Great world, KLKK a bit, had our dinner @ crystal jade, then proceed home as both of our human battery almost run out.
Today 16 March 2009, around 5pm, Viv's msn me and asked if I would like to join her and her mum together with her two nephews plus two maids @ Vivo.
I was there abt 6.05pm, msg Viv and let her know i'm there now.
They arrived around 6.30 I think. Her mum, the two maids and Daniel, took the lift to the open area on the 3rd level while Viv carry David and took the escalator up as I was @ the 2nd level to meet me. The way we met and the way David greeted me was like, u know, Mummy carrying the son and everyone was excited to see one another. I took over David from Viv's arm. People who don't know us would have think of that. Serious.
Ok, proceed up to the 3rd level. Saw her mum, the two maids and Daniel in his Merc (run by two maids power) As I was carrying David, I make it a way that she was playing hide and seek with his grandma behind the pillar. After that, we walk around trying to find a good spot for our sort of pinic pattern. Viv asked if I can go to my car and get the yoga mat so that we can lay it on the floor and sit down. I went down.
We settle down later and the maids start taking out the food to feed the children. Viv's mum was feeding David whereas Daniel was being fed by Melanie, one of their maid. Auntie asked me to join in the makan, so of cos, just eat cos I was relatively hungry too. haha.. The egg were good. The chicken too, but not for veggies as I'm not a veggie person.
As you know, kids tend to run around when they eat and as I was trained up "unoffically" to look after 8 kids in my life from a fresh new born onwards, I know how to handle them. When auntie scoop up the rice and wanted to feed David but he was sort of turning here and there, I pretend to say oh, I want to eat and slowly lean toward the spoon that his grandma was holding up, naturally, he will scream and say I WANT.. Haha... kanna con by an old man.. but it is for a gd cause.
George and BeeBee arrived shortly, George show me his new small LED torch which powered by 1 AA size battery. It was pretty cool but I still prefer bigger version as it will be brighter.
Viv opened up the wine and we started drinking for a while before someone saw big ants invading our area. That's where George decided to head for home.
He took his wife, 2 kids & maids home. Leaving behind his mum and sis. We pack and proceed to another corner as the place that we were sitting earlier was in the direction of exhaust fan from a restaurant downstair.
We found a new place and I laid the mat and we sat down, auntie went to buy makan for all of us. She bought, shit.. dun know the name of the food, but anyway, it was nice, so after that, I took the receipt frm her and go and collect the bee hoon which she ordered earlier. The lady asked me where's the 2 plate, I say I will give it to her after we finished this bee hoon. We ate them near the water area where we laid our mat. Enjoying our wine too. The last piece of the kueh, we were pushing here and there so I say, (orr ah pek or shiom)- Black or white. To my surprised, this is the first time auntie was playing this. She thought I was refering to scissor, paper , stone. Well, in the end, I am the one who is different colour so I got to eat the last piece of the kueh.
After makan, Viv suggested kopi so we went together to food republic again. Me go and return the plate where she go and buy kopi.
When the lady saw me with the plate, she says, wah.. if you still haven't come back, I would have gone and search for you. I told her, Aiya, 2 plates only, is it really so serious meh? Next time I leave my handphone number with you then you wont scared that I steal your plate lor.. or you can call another number, easier one. 999.
They laugh and gave me a discount card (of cos, pass it to auntie) as she was the one who paid for the food. After everything, we packed and depart.
Viv & her mum in one car and me in my own and we set off in different direction.
It was fun having a gathering, sort of pinic style where a guy is with her girlfriend and her mum who possibly might be mother-in-law.. haha.. Yeah it was fun. It was great to know that although I am not rich or highly educated, her mum did not look down on me and I guess she sort of like me too. Of cos, Viv told me before that her dad approve of me being together with her on the first time he saw me. She also told me that her brother also says I'm a good guy too.. Even her sis-in-law and her frds say so too... See.. Me so trust worthy and honest. Of cos people who r intelligent and smart enough will know that I am a honest and good guy..haha.. (so proud of myself) But of cos, I know my values and right from wrong so in a way, I also gain their trust from here.
Happy that her family approve of Viv being with me.
Thanks for the wonderful outing dear. Though, tired as I was, it was a fun evening.
Love you dearest.
So Viv went in and I told Viv I will be siting outside cos I shy mah..
After a while, they came out and guess what. She's spend S$500++ in a single shop. I was actually stung. Anyway, Viv was smart and ask her to borrow her receipt so that I can get points for my parking. TMD, the max per day is only 5 points. $50 to get 1 point = (meaning to say, regardless of you spending $2500 or $250 that day, you can only claim up to $250)
To make things short,we proceed to rooftop to TCSS, drink our wine. around 6.40pm, we drove her to redhill MRT station where she was meeting up another friend of hers. It was fun meeting ppl who are humble and nice. Nice meeting her too.
Ok, then we proceed to Great world, KLKK a bit, had our dinner @ crystal jade, then proceed home as both of our human battery almost run out.
Today 16 March 2009, around 5pm, Viv's msn me and asked if I would like to join her and her mum together with her two nephews plus two maids @ Vivo.
I was there abt 6.05pm, msg Viv and let her know i'm there now.
They arrived around 6.30 I think. Her mum, the two maids and Daniel, took the lift to the open area on the 3rd level while Viv carry David and took the escalator up as I was @ the 2nd level to meet me. The way we met and the way David greeted me was like, u know, Mummy carrying the son and everyone was excited to see one another. I took over David from Viv's arm. People who don't know us would have think of that. Serious.
Ok, proceed up to the 3rd level. Saw her mum, the two maids and Daniel in his Merc (run by two maids power) As I was carrying David, I make it a way that she was playing hide and seek with his grandma behind the pillar. After that, we walk around trying to find a good spot for our sort of pinic pattern. Viv asked if I can go to my car and get the yoga mat so that we can lay it on the floor and sit down. I went down.
We settle down later and the maids start taking out the food to feed the children. Viv's mum was feeding David whereas Daniel was being fed by Melanie, one of their maid. Auntie asked me to join in the makan, so of cos, just eat cos I was relatively hungry too. haha.. The egg were good. The chicken too, but not for veggies as I'm not a veggie person.
As you know, kids tend to run around when they eat and as I was trained up "unoffically" to look after 8 kids in my life from a fresh new born onwards, I know how to handle them. When auntie scoop up the rice and wanted to feed David but he was sort of turning here and there, I pretend to say oh, I want to eat and slowly lean toward the spoon that his grandma was holding up, naturally, he will scream and say I WANT.. Haha... kanna con by an old man.. but it is for a gd cause.
George and BeeBee arrived shortly, George show me his new small LED torch which powered by 1 AA size battery. It was pretty cool but I still prefer bigger version as it will be brighter.
Viv opened up the wine and we started drinking for a while before someone saw big ants invading our area. That's where George decided to head for home.
He took his wife, 2 kids & maids home. Leaving behind his mum and sis. We pack and proceed to another corner as the place that we were sitting earlier was in the direction of exhaust fan from a restaurant downstair.
We found a new place and I laid the mat and we sat down, auntie went to buy makan for all of us. She bought, shit.. dun know the name of the food, but anyway, it was nice, so after that, I took the receipt frm her and go and collect the bee hoon which she ordered earlier. The lady asked me where's the 2 plate, I say I will give it to her after we finished this bee hoon. We ate them near the water area where we laid our mat. Enjoying our wine too. The last piece of the kueh, we were pushing here and there so I say, (orr ah pek or shiom)- Black or white. To my surprised, this is the first time auntie was playing this. She thought I was refering to scissor, paper , stone. Well, in the end, I am the one who is different colour so I got to eat the last piece of the kueh.
After makan, Viv suggested kopi so we went together to food republic again. Me go and return the plate where she go and buy kopi.
When the lady saw me with the plate, she says, wah.. if you still haven't come back, I would have gone and search for you. I told her, Aiya, 2 plates only, is it really so serious meh? Next time I leave my handphone number with you then you wont scared that I steal your plate lor.. or you can call another number, easier one. 999.
They laugh and gave me a discount card (of cos, pass it to auntie) as she was the one who paid for the food. After everything, we packed and depart.
Viv & her mum in one car and me in my own and we set off in different direction.
It was fun having a gathering, sort of pinic style where a guy is with her girlfriend and her mum who possibly might be mother-in-law.. haha.. Yeah it was fun. It was great to know that although I am not rich or highly educated, her mum did not look down on me and I guess she sort of like me too. Of cos, Viv told me before that her dad approve of me being together with her on the first time he saw me. She also told me that her brother also says I'm a good guy too.. Even her sis-in-law and her frds say so too... See.. Me so trust worthy and honest. Of cos people who r intelligent and smart enough will know that I am a honest and good guy..haha.. (so proud of myself) But of cos, I know my values and right from wrong so in a way, I also gain their trust from here.
Happy that her family approve of Viv being with me.
Thanks for the wonderful outing dear. Though, tired as I was, it was a fun evening.
Love you dearest.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Thinking being victimised or really victimised?
This is the question that is popping into my head. How do we actually tell you are being victimised or really being victimised...
Some people may have the knowledge, quick to learn and smart, but some of this people in this group are actually "STUPID". Why? What causes it?
Here some of the reasons;
1) Their quick temper.
2) Wanting to impart knowledge to people but they have no skill in imparting.
3) They also assume people will be a quick learner like themselves.
4) Wanting to help others however expect appreciation to be returned.
Under this circumstances where you fall under their instructions, do you think you are being victimised or are you really being victimised?
My answer, YES, you are being victimised!
Being accomodating, kind, treasure relationship, controlling temper and all the good human nature stuffs. It will be double blow if this is the situation.
Whatever it is, move on and F#$k care all this smart arse... hahaha
Some people may have the knowledge, quick to learn and smart, but some of this people in this group are actually "STUPID". Why? What causes it?
Here some of the reasons;
1) Their quick temper.
2) Wanting to impart knowledge to people but they have no skill in imparting.
3) They also assume people will be a quick learner like themselves.
4) Wanting to help others however expect appreciation to be returned.
Under this circumstances where you fall under their instructions, do you think you are being victimised or are you really being victimised?
My answer, YES, you are being victimised!
Being accomodating, kind, treasure relationship, controlling temper and all the good human nature stuffs. It will be double blow if this is the situation.
Whatever it is, move on and F#$k care all this smart arse... hahaha
Monday, March 2, 2009
Joke of the month
Last Friday 27/2/09. Viv and I had a movie date. After work, I drove down to Vivo and to meet Viv there and have our dinner, KLKK before going for our 9.30 show (Marley & me). I was telling her, maybe next time, we should watch the show later as there will be more time for us to KLKK.
We went in late say abt 9.45. The show already started so we got to use you know, the excuse me, sorry etc to get to our seats. However, when we reached our designated seat. It was occupied, Viv was in front of me so she asked me to back off and both of us move backwards to the steps there before deciding what to do. Opps, she tripped and fall.. Ouch, my heart ache. Ok, then we found corner got two seats hence Viv suggest we just sit there, less than a min, two ladies came in and we are occupying their seats. So I decided to take the initiative to approach GV staffs and tell them that our seats were taken.
Wow, Love the way they handle it. Machaim gang fight where I go to one of them and that one call for another one as a back up. They rushed it like SWAT team. with us behind like their big boss... Then they checked our tixs and turn around. "Sir, your tixs is meant for 9.30pm all right, but it is for tomorrow, 28/2/09".
Wahh!!!! @ that time, I dun know where to hide my face lor... hahaha... So have to handle it with a mature ways by saying "Oh is it? I see... SO sorry to trouble you guys and thanks for your help" The best is, they keep apologizing to us though there was no fault of theirs.
Viv and I look at each other and we laughed our head off.. So I say, in that case, we come tomorrow again lor, she say why not try to see if we can change for a later time, which was 11.30pm. Well, they were nice enough to do the changes for us. Oh well, it fulfilled our wishes where we got enough time to KLKK..hahaha...
Viv was expecting me to have "black face" no point lor cos ppl do make mistakes and since the purpose of outing is for an enjoyable evening, we shouldn't let this little "dust" affect us. She is sweet enough to book the tixs for both of us to watch and I'm going to get mad over the wrong date? Well, Unless I have something really urgent to attend to and she insist that I have to watch with her then that's a different story. However, this story, I believed it will never happen as she is not that kind of super ridiculous person. Well, It was a very memorable one. Love you honey and thanks for everything you have done.
We went in late say abt 9.45. The show already started so we got to use you know, the excuse me, sorry etc to get to our seats. However, when we reached our designated seat. It was occupied, Viv was in front of me so she asked me to back off and both of us move backwards to the steps there before deciding what to do. Opps, she tripped and fall.. Ouch, my heart ache. Ok, then we found corner got two seats hence Viv suggest we just sit there, less than a min, two ladies came in and we are occupying their seats. So I decided to take the initiative to approach GV staffs and tell them that our seats were taken.
Wow, Love the way they handle it. Machaim gang fight where I go to one of them and that one call for another one as a back up. They rushed it like SWAT team. with us behind like their big boss... Then they checked our tixs and turn around. "Sir, your tixs is meant for 9.30pm all right, but it is for tomorrow, 28/2/09".
Wahh!!!! @ that time, I dun know where to hide my face lor... hahaha... So have to handle it with a mature ways by saying "Oh is it? I see... SO sorry to trouble you guys and thanks for your help" The best is, they keep apologizing to us though there was no fault of theirs.
Viv and I look at each other and we laughed our head off.. So I say, in that case, we come tomorrow again lor, she say why not try to see if we can change for a later time, which was 11.30pm. Well, they were nice enough to do the changes for us. Oh well, it fulfilled our wishes where we got enough time to KLKK..hahaha...
Viv was expecting me to have "black face" no point lor cos ppl do make mistakes and since the purpose of outing is for an enjoyable evening, we shouldn't let this little "dust" affect us. She is sweet enough to book the tixs for both of us to watch and I'm going to get mad over the wrong date? Well, Unless I have something really urgent to attend to and she insist that I have to watch with her then that's a different story. However, this story, I believed it will never happen as she is not that kind of super ridiculous person. Well, It was a very memorable one. Love you honey and thanks for everything you have done.
Monday, February 23, 2009
Four solid months of smoke free
All rite! giving myself a pat on the back. Credits sharing with Vivian as she is the main motivator as well as the reason for me to divorce ciggies.
Although I was dreaming like those in show, where the gal grab the packet of ciggies and asked the guy this question... Do you want this ciggies or me? However, I was glad that my dearest did not use any methods on me. It was my own willingness to quit.
Conclusion. This is one form of positive light on quitters. Quitters doesn't mean loser. In fact, I won couple of things..eg, health, a little bit more $ to spend and most importantly, winning the woman of my heart. I'm also proud to walk around in her house without trying to sneaking out for a puff or hiding the smell from her family as all of them are non-smokers with healthy minds.
Although I was dreaming like those in show, where the gal grab the packet of ciggies and asked the guy this question... Do you want this ciggies or me? However, I was glad that my dearest did not use any methods on me. It was my own willingness to quit.
Conclusion. This is one form of positive light on quitters. Quitters doesn't mean loser. In fact, I won couple of things..eg, health, a little bit more $ to spend and most importantly, winning the woman of my heart. I'm also proud to walk around in her house without trying to sneaking out for a puff or hiding the smell from her family as all of them are non-smokers with healthy minds.
Monday, February 16, 2009
My First Valentine
I would like to dedicate this blog to my dearest Vivian.
First of all, I would like to thank you from the bottom of my feet all the way to the hairs on my head for accepting and approving my application for a PR status in your heart.
Just to recap,
1) Application for PR on 11th Oct 2008
2) Was on probation and holding employment pass for 3 mths.
3) PR application was approved on 11th Jan 2009 (Of cos over the moon lah.)
4) Celebrate our first month Anniversary on 11th Feb 2009 at the place where the love flame started. (West Coast and wine)
5) Celebrate our first Valentine together on 14th Feb 2009 - Go to her place, nua a while, drive to Shaw, park there, took MRT to City hall where her friend Woon started a pushcart biz there. After that, took the MRT back to Orchard where we had our dinner @ pepperlunch. We ordered set 5, 14 and 15. 5 is the steak with bean sprout, 14 is the pasta with sausage and 15 is the curry rice with burger filling. After that, we drove to Vivo to catch our movie "Slumdog Millionaire."
The best thing that happen was, she seek clearance for me with the Queen to stay @ their palace for the night, (in princess's room). Green light were given.. Hooray!!! Of cos, when privileges given, mustn't abuse it hence we were good boy & gal in a room where I was on the floor while she is on her bed, but still, the moment together was a night to remember and this is the 1st time I slept so soundly until she purposely disturbed me by scratching my pillow but I was sleeping like a PIG.
The next morning, we were woken up by the ring of her handphone. Her mom called and asked her to go outside the dining room and get her to participate in a voting for some contest to help her friend.
We had roti prata for breakfast near her place, come back again to nua, then drive back to my place, had Laska for lunch, came back to my place, nua a bit then clear the rabbit cage. Took a feeder bus to Northpoint to purchase spray for rabbits, her lip gloss as well as the vacuum bag for the vacuum cleaner. After that, took the bus back, had fish burger and chicken chop @ a kopi tiam near my place. When we done with it, it was abt 9.30pm.
We popped over to Mike's place (my bro-in-law) and pay him a visit as he was discharged recently after an operation on his back. Thank god it was a successful one. @ 10pm, we decided to head for my place where she rent a VCD earlier "The good, The Bad and the weird". The story was ok but the ending was not that good. We finished the discs @ abt 12.20am. I took my keys and sent her back home and came back home quickly as I got to work the next day.
Overall, this is one of the good day to remember... Viv, Love you honey.
First of all, I would like to thank you from the bottom of my feet all the way to the hairs on my head for accepting and approving my application for a PR status in your heart.
Just to recap,
1) Application for PR on 11th Oct 2008
2) Was on probation and holding employment pass for 3 mths.
3) PR application was approved on 11th Jan 2009 (Of cos over the moon lah.)
4) Celebrate our first month Anniversary on 11th Feb 2009 at the place where the love flame started. (West Coast and wine)
5) Celebrate our first Valentine together on 14th Feb 2009 - Go to her place, nua a while, drive to Shaw, park there, took MRT to City hall where her friend Woon started a pushcart biz there. After that, took the MRT back to Orchard where we had our dinner @ pepperlunch. We ordered set 5, 14 and 15. 5 is the steak with bean sprout, 14 is the pasta with sausage and 15 is the curry rice with burger filling. After that, we drove to Vivo to catch our movie "Slumdog Millionaire."
The best thing that happen was, she seek clearance for me with the Queen to stay @ their palace for the night, (in princess's room). Green light were given.. Hooray!!! Of cos, when privileges given, mustn't abuse it hence we were good boy & gal in a room where I was on the floor while she is on her bed, but still, the moment together was a night to remember and this is the 1st time I slept so soundly until she purposely disturbed me by scratching my pillow but I was sleeping like a PIG.
The next morning, we were woken up by the ring of her handphone. Her mom called and asked her to go outside the dining room and get her to participate in a voting for some contest to help her friend.
We had roti prata for breakfast near her place, come back again to nua, then drive back to my place, had Laska for lunch, came back to my place, nua a bit then clear the rabbit cage. Took a feeder bus to Northpoint to purchase spray for rabbits, her lip gloss as well as the vacuum bag for the vacuum cleaner. After that, took the bus back, had fish burger and chicken chop @ a kopi tiam near my place. When we done with it, it was abt 9.30pm.
We popped over to Mike's place (my bro-in-law) and pay him a visit as he was discharged recently after an operation on his back. Thank god it was a successful one. @ 10pm, we decided to head for my place where she rent a VCD earlier "The good, The Bad and the weird". The story was ok but the ending was not that good. We finished the discs @ abt 12.20am. I took my keys and sent her back home and came back home quickly as I got to work the next day.
Overall, this is one of the good day to remember... Viv, Love you honey.
Thursday, January 22, 2009
A quick short blog
OK, this is a quick short one.
Yesterday evening at 9.27pm, was with my darling and this is the most funniest request that I've ever heard. Hey Jeff, reserved your toilet and let me wash ok? hahaha.. so funny but sweet of her to offer such services. I seriously believed that no other people other than her and would asked for this request... Y? cos she loves me...
To add on to this short blog. this is my 17 days @ a new work place and I dun really like this place cos the sup is something like always looking for credit, annoucing to the whole world how hard working she is, when ask her question, she pretend not too sure, then ask me to go ask the boss, then when I go ask the boss, she would jump in and say oh,, this is the way to do the stuff..blah blah blah.. F#%$ing bitch. Anyway, I will not be bother with such low subtance creature and continue to work till I find a better lobang. Cos I need the dough to maintain the house as well as my mistress and trying all means to save up for the sake of wanting to have a beautiful future with my dearest tweetie.
Yesterday evening at 9.27pm, was with my darling and this is the most funniest request that I've ever heard. Hey Jeff, reserved your toilet and let me wash ok? hahaha.. so funny but sweet of her to offer such services. I seriously believed that no other people other than her and would asked for this request... Y? cos she loves me...
To add on to this short blog. this is my 17 days @ a new work place and I dun really like this place cos the sup is something like always looking for credit, annoucing to the whole world how hard working she is, when ask her question, she pretend not too sure, then ask me to go ask the boss, then when I go ask the boss, she would jump in and say oh,, this is the way to do the stuff..blah blah blah.. F#%$ing bitch. Anyway, I will not be bother with such low subtance creature and continue to work till I find a better lobang. Cos I need the dough to maintain the house as well as my mistress and trying all means to save up for the sake of wanting to have a beautiful future with my dearest tweetie.
Monday, January 12, 2009
A day to remember (11th Jan 2009) PR STATUS
111008. This was the day. The day when I applied for Permanent Residence through an email into someone's heart. I was put on a 3 month Employment Pass (subjected to extension or immediate termination) if I did not fulfill up to the expectation of the owner.
Finally. the day has arrived. 110109 (Midnight), I received a sms from the owner.
"Dear Mr. Sim, this sms serves to confirm that your application for PR has been approved wef 11th Jan 2009, upon successful completion of 3 mths probation under your employment pass status.
Congratulations, and looking forward to a continuous friendship and growing, loving relationship with you. Sincerely, Princess Darling Tweetie :D."
From that day on. Finally, I've got my PR at last. Now, the real journey just began. I will be looking forward to some changes. Eg. Anger management and will add in later when I happen to think of it.
I believed this road will be challenging as I will not be the other one who will be put to the test. The owner of the heart, Tweetie will be put to the test too. Reason, it requires both our comittment to build a world of our own. Along the way, we will be tested on things like "give & take, forgive & forget, love and be loved, empathy, understanding and lots more."
I will treasure this PR status and will be working towards a harmonious, fun, loving, exciting, caring, understanding and happy relationship.
As for conversion to Citizenship. The owner of the heart and the PR status personnel will have a heart to heart discussion over this when they feel it is the right time. :)
Finally. the day has arrived. 110109 (Midnight), I received a sms from the owner.
"Dear Mr. Sim, this sms serves to confirm that your application for PR has been approved wef 11th Jan 2009, upon successful completion of 3 mths probation under your employment pass status.
Congratulations, and looking forward to a continuous friendship and growing, loving relationship with you. Sincerely, Princess Darling Tweetie :D."
From that day on. Finally, I've got my PR at last. Now, the real journey just began. I will be looking forward to some changes. Eg. Anger management and will add in later when I happen to think of it.
I believed this road will be challenging as I will not be the other one who will be put to the test. The owner of the heart, Tweetie will be put to the test too. Reason, it requires both our comittment to build a world of our own. Along the way, we will be tested on things like "give & take, forgive & forget, love and be loved, empathy, understanding and lots more."
I will treasure this PR status and will be working towards a harmonious, fun, loving, exciting, caring, understanding and happy relationship.
As for conversion to Citizenship. The owner of the heart and the PR status personnel will have a heart to heart discussion over this when they feel it is the right time. :)
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
THIS POST IS MEANT JUST FOR YOU DEAR.
To my dearest V,
I really appreciate those days while I was not working whereas your work was drowning you & you still took time off from your rest and keep me company after your hectic work, on top of that, with so much energy and smile. This is something that not many people can do.
Even after you quited, there are many things which you plan to do, you shelve up some of them to make time for us to be together. I appreciate that too.
Now that I started working again & cannot use this time to spend with you (mon to fri 8.30 to 5.30pm), so I guess this will be the best time for you to do those things that you plan to do, of course those which we are supposed to do together, like exercise and some of the other things, I'm still game on. ;)
Please don't take it that I am telling you what to do becos both of us know you know what to do...(aiya, u know what I meant right? Sometimes, what I type, I may have misinterpret what I am meant, but whatever I type here, it's all the good things that is really what I meant to say to you) But bear this in mind, Whenever you need me, just call my name and I'll be there. (anytime, anywhere)
The appreciation that I have for you is more than what is stated here by saying I REALLY APPRECIATED WHAT YOU HAVE DONE. I know that even if I did not say it here, I know you know that I appreciate what you done for me through the actions that I have taken all these while. This is only one of the way that we can have it recorded for our future library to show you how much you mean to me.
Love you darling.
I really appreciate those days while I was not working whereas your work was drowning you & you still took time off from your rest and keep me company after your hectic work, on top of that, with so much energy and smile. This is something that not many people can do.
Even after you quited, there are many things which you plan to do, you shelve up some of them to make time for us to be together. I appreciate that too.
Now that I started working again & cannot use this time to spend with you (mon to fri 8.30 to 5.30pm), so I guess this will be the best time for you to do those things that you plan to do, of course those which we are supposed to do together, like exercise and some of the other things, I'm still game on. ;)
Please don't take it that I am telling you what to do becos both of us know you know what to do...(aiya, u know what I meant right? Sometimes, what I type, I may have misinterpret what I am meant, but whatever I type here, it's all the good things that is really what I meant to say to you) But bear this in mind, Whenever you need me, just call my name and I'll be there. (anytime, anywhere)
The appreciation that I have for you is more than what is stated here by saying I REALLY APPRECIATED WHAT YOU HAVE DONE. I know that even if I did not say it here, I know you know that I appreciate what you done for me through the actions that I have taken all these while. This is only one of the way that we can have it recorded for our future library to show you how much you mean to me.
Love you darling.
1st day @t work in new office
Started off with a lousy night. Couldn't get to sleep. Got into bed @ around 12.15am, woke up @ 1.30, then 2.30 then 3.30 then 4.30 then 7 when my alarm rang.
Wake up, brush up and do the necessary things. Set off @ 7.30am as it is always jammed @ CTE towards AMK.
Today the traffic seems quite smooth. I reached the office which is located @ Kampong Ampat (around Mcpherson area) @ around 8.10am.
Rang the office door bell as I do not have the access card. Vn (who is the sup) opened the door for me, showed me to the cubicle where I'm supposed to work.
Didn't have breakfast, but she bought donuts so offer me one. The 1/2 half, simply CBL, check personal email, facebook, browse through company website to understand more of it. During lunchtime, I skipped lunch and went to my car to take a 20 mins nap (with engine off and windows wind down)
Woke up ard 12.35, go downstairs had a cup of coffee then go back office ard 12.55pm.
She showed me some of the office things that she is working and trying on as it was a new thing and she pretty new to it too. so trial & errors.
The office was super quiet, occasionally the sales guy will come to the gal in front of me to have a short chitchat, otherwise, can hear only the MD talking over the phone loudly. Honestly, I do not have a very good impression abt him as he was the one that conducted the 2nd interview with me and belittle me. (saying what I was doing in my previous company which is much bigger than this current company was only 20% of what is expected of me over here.) I know I did not set a good impression to him too as I am not a great pretender otherwise I would have been a rich insurance agent by now. Oh ya, anyway, as a MD, you should at least carry yourself like an MD. Even if you don't like the staff, you should in a way welcome him / her on their first day. Sigh... what to do? Hack him. haha..
Anyway, it was Vn that convinced and says that she wants me to help her out of the other two candidates. One not from this trade and the other one was my ex-colleague but Vn do not want her as she was a Filipino. Whether she is biased against Filipino, it's not my concern. Anyway, I was employed at a pay cut. Well, I discussed with my dear who enlighten my view and telling me say just try first, dun like then kiss them good-bye or if I really need the dough, then have to bear with it until the next luxury ship arrive. (something like that)
Anyway, throughout the 2nd half of the day, again I was CBL ing. Then msn Carol (frd), Grace & Shirley (ex-colleague) as well as Candy (Ex-colleague in China). TCSS with them then around 5.30, Vn msn me and say she's going back @ 5.30 and if I want to go back too, I can, well, I'm dying to as I'm bored to tears.
Then I offered her a ride to somewhere around Serangoon Road, along the way for me to go home too where it actually cut short a journey a lot. Not a bad way to score some point in the initial stage of work. (a win win situation) After that, I headed straight home, I was home around 6.18pm. pretty early. Msg my dearest to let her I'm home @ the same time checking to see if she is feeling much better. I called her after that, chat for a while. Glad to know she is feeling better than yesterday. Had my dinner after that. Watch 7pm ch 8 show, then now blogging here.
Something just struck my mind. Starting a new job is like starting a new relationship, it involves the feeling, and that kind of senses that you know, when you think it is right, it is right...
Though my feeling towards this job is not that good, but as I need the dough to survive, I will press on to see how it goes while @ the same time waiting for the right opportunity to come.
Fortunately, I count my blessing. So far, my r/s with my dear is going strong and I'm going to strive all the way to make it better and stronger as times goes by and of cos she also must play a part to make this work lah which I believed she will becos I trust that both of us really treasure this r/s and are serious about it.
Hmm.. today seems like one of the longest day that my sayang and I didn't communicate. Oh boy, I sure miss her, but then again, both of us are grown up, we should know our priority. (As long as she knows my mind and heart are always with her, I'm satisfied)
I surely know that I will miss her even more on 13 to 17th this month as she will be going overseas to attend her relative wedding.
Enough of the mushy stuffs or too much is not good.. haha..
Oh well, I hope tomorrow will be a better day.
Wake up, brush up and do the necessary things. Set off @ 7.30am as it is always jammed @ CTE towards AMK.
Today the traffic seems quite smooth. I reached the office which is located @ Kampong Ampat (around Mcpherson area) @ around 8.10am.
Rang the office door bell as I do not have the access card. Vn (who is the sup) opened the door for me, showed me to the cubicle where I'm supposed to work.
Didn't have breakfast, but she bought donuts so offer me one. The 1/2 half, simply CBL, check personal email, facebook, browse through company website to understand more of it. During lunchtime, I skipped lunch and went to my car to take a 20 mins nap (with engine off and windows wind down)
Woke up ard 12.35, go downstairs had a cup of coffee then go back office ard 12.55pm.
She showed me some of the office things that she is working and trying on as it was a new thing and she pretty new to it too. so trial & errors.
The office was super quiet, occasionally the sales guy will come to the gal in front of me to have a short chitchat, otherwise, can hear only the MD talking over the phone loudly. Honestly, I do not have a very good impression abt him as he was the one that conducted the 2nd interview with me and belittle me. (saying what I was doing in my previous company which is much bigger than this current company was only 20% of what is expected of me over here.) I know I did not set a good impression to him too as I am not a great pretender otherwise I would have been a rich insurance agent by now. Oh ya, anyway, as a MD, you should at least carry yourself like an MD. Even if you don't like the staff, you should in a way welcome him / her on their first day. Sigh... what to do? Hack him. haha..
Anyway, it was Vn that convinced and says that she wants me to help her out of the other two candidates. One not from this trade and the other one was my ex-colleague but Vn do not want her as she was a Filipino. Whether she is biased against Filipino, it's not my concern. Anyway, I was employed at a pay cut. Well, I discussed with my dear who enlighten my view and telling me say just try first, dun like then kiss them good-bye or if I really need the dough, then have to bear with it until the next luxury ship arrive. (something like that)
Anyway, throughout the 2nd half of the day, again I was CBL ing. Then msn Carol (frd), Grace & Shirley (ex-colleague) as well as Candy (Ex-colleague in China). TCSS with them then around 5.30, Vn msn me and say she's going back @ 5.30 and if I want to go back too, I can, well, I'm dying to as I'm bored to tears.
Then I offered her a ride to somewhere around Serangoon Road, along the way for me to go home too where it actually cut short a journey a lot. Not a bad way to score some point in the initial stage of work. (a win win situation) After that, I headed straight home, I was home around 6.18pm. pretty early. Msg my dearest to let her I'm home @ the same time checking to see if she is feeling much better. I called her after that, chat for a while. Glad to know she is feeling better than yesterday. Had my dinner after that. Watch 7pm ch 8 show, then now blogging here.
Something just struck my mind. Starting a new job is like starting a new relationship, it involves the feeling, and that kind of senses that you know, when you think it is right, it is right...
Though my feeling towards this job is not that good, but as I need the dough to survive, I will press on to see how it goes while @ the same time waiting for the right opportunity to come.
Fortunately, I count my blessing. So far, my r/s with my dear is going strong and I'm going to strive all the way to make it better and stronger as times goes by and of cos she also must play a part to make this work lah which I believed she will becos I trust that both of us really treasure this r/s and are serious about it.
Hmm.. today seems like one of the longest day that my sayang and I didn't communicate. Oh boy, I sure miss her, but then again, both of us are grown up, we should know our priority. (As long as she knows my mind and heart are always with her, I'm satisfied)
I surely know that I will miss her even more on 13 to 17th this month as she will be going overseas to attend her relative wedding.
Enough of the mushy stuffs or too much is not good.. haha..
Oh well, I hope tomorrow will be a better day.
Thursday, January 1, 2009
My detailed maiden trip with my sweetie (Part 2)
Back from the holiday with my love.
Summary of this trip;
(4D3N trip to Genting)
Depart SGP (Golden Mile): 271208 @ 2300hrs
Arrive Genting: 281208 @ 0530hrs
Time spent @ Genting: 281208 to 311208
* For this trip, we brought along 3 bottles of wines for the 3 nights
1) Wolf Blass yellow label (red wine)
2) Wolf Blass marron label (red wine)
3) Martini Asti (white bubbly wine)
We had our 1st bottle on the 1st night in the room, the 2nd one @ a tent outside of Theme park Hotel and the last bottle in the room again. On top of this, she bought along 2 small bottles. one was a ice wine and the other one was Chivas.
Depart Genting: 311208 @ 1430hrs
Arrive SGP(Boon Lay Shopping Centre): 311208 @ 2145hrs
(photos will be up shortly)
271208 around 2140hrs, arrived @ West Mall.
No doubts she travel more frequent than me and having more & heavier luggages than this trip with me, that was all before we are together hence I have no excuse as to help her with the luggages. Furthermore, this trip we are going together therefore I will have to assist with the carrying of her luggage. She was not ready, so she drove over to West Mall and pick me up to her place 1st. We stayed there for about 20 mins in her room where she was doing her final check.
Set off to Golden Mile and we had a big pow & a can of Singha before the journey.
281208 around 0530hrs, arrived Genting Highland (First World Hotel)
The journey took about 6 to 7 hrs from SGP to Genting. When we first stepped down of the coach, we could feel the cold nice breeze & wind blowing right @ us. The feeling of reaching our destination safe and sound was great as we are mentally ready for our 1st holiday together.We walked from the bus terminal to First World Hotel where we were going to stay. @ the lobby, the Q for just taking a Q number was quite long, as I am the (luggage boy), she was so sweet that she told me to find a seat first, put the luggage down and rest where she stand and Q for the Q number. Awww.. So sweet...
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While she was @ the Q around 0537hrs, I was sitting @ the lobby running my eyes around the surrounding. Gosh, the place looks like a refuge camp. You can see people lying on the seat with a cloth covering over them and lying on the seat sleeping. few parent sitting on the chair hugging their younger ones while trying to get them to take a nap.We managed to get a Q number. It was 7002. We can only check in @ 1400hrs later. Time now was abt 0615hrs. Since that's the case, we sat @ Starbucks, order a cappuccino and a banana chocolate muffin and share. We were chatting and I suggested that we try to catch the sun rise since both of us are rarely an early bird. She was spontaneous and agreed to the plan. We throw our luggage @ the luggage point and got a tag and we sort of ran towards the East direction as I had a compass on my watch.
The solid view that we were about to see @ the altitude of almost 6000 feet above sea level was an eye opener. we captured the 1st shot ard 0704hrs and had done some posing for the cam till around 0755hrs. (& as for the embarrassing things that happened in between this time, haha.. it's just our "little secret" and for the other couple in the car as well..)
After that, we decided to roam around the places, hotel to hotel, cafe to cafe and getting ourselves familiarise with the area and how the link from one hotel to another works. To kill more time, she suggested that we catch a movie. the cinema were @ the indoor theme park. We watched IP Man @ 1030hrs (chinese show) Know what? Ours was a special seat. OSIM massage chair!!! OMG... kanna massage for @ last 1 solid hour. Before that, we had our breakfast @ BK. Wow, the white coffee was nice! So was the breakfast.
@ around 1348hrs, we let our feet rest a while @ coffeebean cafe located @ Resort Hotel. The cloud were sort of surrounding us and we were enjoying the cold air blowing @ our faces.
Around 1400hrs, we walked downward towards First World Hotel where we were supposed to check in. When we reached there, our Q number overshot. It was say.. 7006 now. So we cut the Q and show the receptionist our Q number. She was kind enough to entertain us. Less than 5 mins, we got the room card. Yippee...!!!! Proceed to the luggage counter to collect our luggage back. Q up again.. haha... about 1/2 hr.
Finally took our luggages, card to the door of our room and head straight to the lift and proceed to level 6 where our room number was 6803. (Honestly, it dun looks like 6th level at all when I look out from the window in the room, it looks much more higher than that, anyway, not impt)
she started off by snapping pics of the room while I was preparing all our charging points for hand phones and cams.
We rested for about 15 mins, took our shower and continue resting. Ok... my fault, I forgotten what we ate. Maybe she will refresh me later.
291208 @ abt 1300hrs, woke up.
Plan of going to the outdoor and indoor theme park cancel as it will be a waste as half a day was gone already. So decided to roam the place officially. We had our brunch @ Old town cafe ard 1503hrs. We had Nasi Rendang, Nasi Lemak, half boil eggs and peanut butter toast and 2 original old town white coffee.
We then KLKK again, basically enjoying the cold weather and the company of one another. (like mentioned on the earlier blog. hand in hand, walking in a cool weather, some muack muack..(keekee)
After that, we go and searched for a place where we can have the fresh cool air and drinking our wine in peace. Found some spots and KIV them.
Then it was about time for dinner. We wanted to try Lakeview Garden Restaurant, but when we look @ the menu, the price look ex. Hence we decided to go to the indoor theme park again where the food court, fast food, shopping, movies, rides etc were. We tried out the BKT. (Bak Ku Teh). Not bad especially having hot soup on a cold weather. It cost us RM$41 something which is about the same as lakeview if we were to order fried kway teow. However, no regrets cos our main objective is to have fun and fill our tummy...
I believed we did had our fair share of KFC too during this day but can't recall was it lunch or dinner or supper. Anyway, the KFC was nice too compared to the ones in SIN.
After the makan, we KLKK to make some room in our tummy before heading back to the room to rest a while before we proceed and head out to the open garden and consume our wine.
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We woke up @ 10am, plan is to conquer the theme park. We bought the in & outdoor whole day pass. When we went in, I was like "holy shit", look @ the number of people waiting for their rides.
We attempt to wait for some rides like the roller coaster and spaceshot (like giant oil drop in dreamworld auzzie) but, F*@#, so bloody long and slow... skip and go for another one. My mood turn for the bad, she senses it and tried to cheer me up ( I know she also hate to Q up and wait - correct me if I'm wrong)
We walk to another ride which is called mine train. When we reached there, the staff there just turn us away by saying this ride is currently temporary closed.
(You know, the number of rides they have against the number of customers is not balance lor... worst still quite a number of rides are closed... corkscrew, crazy space lab, now mine train etc...It's just trigger me off and I say out aloud "Why not closed the whole theme park if there are so many number of temporary closure of the rides) I guessed she was pissed off by my action.
From there on, both of us walks towards another ride where the conversation between us hit off to the minimum. I told myself, "oh shit!, I just pissed her off." we waited for about 35 mins b4 we can have our 1st ride of the day. "The Flying Dragon" which lasted a min.
We finally managed to catch a ride after spending an hour in the park. Three quarter through the ride, the jerky movement of the ride causes her to knock her elbow against the hard surface of the dragon seat we were in. That was where my video recording ends cos to me, she means more to me comparing to continue with the recording.
When we got off from that ride, I was glad she told me she just feel numb and pain but no fracture to the elbow.
That's where we decide to take a break. We walk around the park again, there she saw the carousel and say why not take this ride since there are no one in the Q. I say, ok as I do not want to have any other thrill rides that may cause more damage to her injured elbow. We sat on the horses that can go up & down, up and down and took some pics for her. Seeing her enjoying herself and no hurt can fall on her, I was happy too. After this ride, I suggested we go for snack and rest a while.
We proceed back to the indoor theme park and tried the Marybrown chicken.. (something like KFC) hmm.. their food are not bad too.
Time was about 1550hrs, she says wanna go OSIM again? haha.. massage movie leh.., so we bought tixs for a show call "The Spirit" which shows @ 1700hrs. Meantime, we proceed back to the room and rest. We went down again around 1630hrs, had few games of basketball then go watch this show. Honest view, I feel that this show is blah... She think so too... but it's ok cos just enjoying doing things together be it good or bad.
We walked back to the outdoor theme park again. there, we saw the flying coaster and it is not within the outdoor theme park compound. Therefore, this is not include in the park pass. We have to fork out another RM10. We put our stuffs into the safe box b4 we head for this ride...
Off we go, like super heroes, flying around in the sky @ super speed. It was fun... As she knows I like thrill ride, she asked if I wanna go again but to me, I dun mind but not necessary so I told her it's ok. I'm contented about the ride. We bought the photo from them which captured both of us in it.
It started to rain after that. We were glad that we managed to catch this ride before it rains.
We went back indoor and play baseball & basketball. Got the tickets and managed to redeem 1 small soft toy and a small pen with it.
After that, we were both sweating so we went for a shower, then open up the cuttlefish and proceed with wine #3. Martini Asli.
We drank the wine, took some pics then it's time to koon.
311208 (Last day @ Genting)
I woke up @ 10am, pack my things then wake her up to pack hers as we need to check out by 1200hrs. As I done my packing 1st, I left her in the room to continue packing while I go and confirm our booking of the coach back to Singapore. After confirming, I proceed back to the room again and help her with her luggage.
Oh ya, just remember this, the coach that we took back to Singapore, this one is much cooler than the one we took to Genting. It has a built-in TV console for games and video. We finished off 2 full shows throughout the journey back to Sin. 1st was Money not enough 2 and the other one was 1408
Money not enough 2
I would strongly recommend ppl to watch money not enough 2 especially the part where it comes to who is going to take care of the mom. Have they ever thought that when they were a baby, they shit & wet their pants, did the mother complaint or give up on them? NO! They still love the kid. Now that the mom is old and her urinal system is weak (equal to no control over them) The children start kicking the mother around. I think I should post a short statement on this in my facebook so that some people whom I know are like this and maybe this will be a wake up call to them... (Anyway, I shouldn't get too emotional on this. It is supposed to be a happy blog for this one) Ok, next show.
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Wahh!!! This show powerful lor... Able to make her scream quite a number of times.. Fortunately I think the rest of the passengers are having their headphone on too.. I hope.. Otherwise, they would think what's happening behind the coach.
It was a very thrilling show. As each seat can play same or different shows, depending on the user, she was able to sync both mine and her seat show and make it as if our show are link up.
Halfway through, the coach stop for dinner break. She says the show finishing liao so wait a while. While the rest already out of the bus and it left only two of us on board. After 5 mins, we decided to come down for dinner as it was quite a long while before the show finishes.
While we were @ the door of the coach, it was "SHIT" the door was shut and we didn't know what is the bus driver number. Looks likes both of us are stranded in the coach without aircon.
We were able to reach panic mode where I just try my luck on those button display on the dashboard... Wheee.. Luck was with me, the 1st button that I pressed, it was the right one, the door open, we step down and I try to look for another button outside the coach to close the door but bor leh... So, as I noticed that the reaction of the door opening earlier was pretty slow, I decided to go back on board, press door close and rushed down. I MADE IT!!! Both of us are down and the door of the coach was close. @ that time, I was so proud of myself... ;)
Then we went to the canteen, order a kopi, follow by Ramli burger and share our meals. After that, all of us board the bus again and we were on the way back to Sin. We were discussing how we can go over to my Sue's place to do the countdown. Bye Bye 2008 and Hello 2009.
When we reached Boon Lay side, it was abt 2245hrs already. As there was no available taxi around, she call for cab. We headed over to her place when she took a quick shower while I wait for her in her room.
After that, It was already about 2330 hrs. We were about to leave her place, her mummy came out and asked Viv to drive her car over, which initially I was thinking, we take a cab to my sis place then after that I will drive her home, but since mommy already open up her mouth and suggest, accept lor as it was her kind and nice gesture of offering her car. (Why I dun want Viv to drive was I think she is tired and therefore prefer that I drive her back after that.)
When We reached Sue's place, it was already 0005hrs (1st Jan 2009), When we went in, they already fired all the poppers and sprays. There was a huge crowds there. This is the 1st time Viv meet all my sibling @ one go. From Ron except Juslyn as she was working (Sharmin & Cheria), Sue & Mike (Vernon, Shaun and Alexis) and Doris & Francis (Mavis - not there, working, Louis & Janis). Mom was not there as she went to play Mahjong.
Oh my dear niece Sharmin, I guess she was already high at that time, so Sharmin chatted with Viv, telling her that Mavis was mentioning to her (Sharmin) how cool she was (Viv) Could it be because of that she is so excited to see Viv? Oh well, I'm glad too as my niece likes her as much as I love her.
As it was as usual Popiah party, we have to roll our own popiah, so Viv and I started rolling it, eating and enjoying the wine as well as the company. Viv commented that the popiah is nice. Nicer than the one we had in the palace of some princess.. haaha ;)
About 0145hrs, we decided to make a move as I do not want to hold her back for too long. As my luggage is still in her car, she drove me to my house downstair which is 3 mins walk away from my Sue's place. Then I took out my luggage, kiss good nite and askher to sms me when she got back home. The carpark was full so I pointed to her to reverse into the NO PARKING zone so she can do a three point turn. To my surprise, she just zoom all the way in reverse gear to the exit. I was shocked!! Anyway, I am glad that she reached home safe & sound.
There might be few things that I may have left out here be it deliberately, accidental or forgotten...haha.. do remind me if any.. lol
Oh yeah.. dun mess with her...BASKETBALL (due to the profession confidential issue, you can only see the pro in action from side and back view only)
We went to the Funtasy world (Arcade games) where we challenged one another on basketball
Dun play play wor... She was a basketball player during secondary school time...Lucky for me and she gave chances and let me win her.
Overall, It was a 98% fantastic trip we had. I long for more like this with her again soon... the other 2% was screw up by me which she did told me not to be hard on myself. I will dear. I will..Therefore, the 2% was caused by ......anything lah.. The more impt one is the 98% compare to the silly 2%.
Thanks dear for being so forgiving and sharing this fantastic, wonderful, memorable trip with me...Ya, thanks for agreeing to come over to my sis place to do the count down.
Love you!!!
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