My 1st time bringing my niece out with Viv

10/12 (Wed)
First time bringing my niece out to clubbing with the wonderful guidance and help from Viv.

First, We met up @ Vivo for our dinner @ Kim Gary Restaurant. The two ladies hit off well on their 1st official meet up. small talk from stories books etc...

After that, we were talking about the wonderful desert wine that Viv & I had @ Bozeit. Then, Viv say ok, we go there for our drink 1st before heading down to St. James. The desert wine was really fantastic and we really enjoyed it.

We finished it around 10.30 where we decided to head down to St. James. There, we went to Movida 1st. As we were standing in this order, Mavis, Viv & I. This is where my niece got her first approach by a guy with spoke to her in mandarin. She was in a way shy and got Viv to stand on her left side. = M is @ the centre. I wanted to stand over @ that corner but Viv assured me it was all right as she is in total control of the situation.

After that, we proceed to other rooms like firefly, dragonfly. The last place that we went was broiler's room. It was pretty exciting over there and we did enjoyed ourselves there. Coming to the last 10 mins before we decided to depart to home, my niece was being approached by guy again. She quickly turn to Viv and stick to her...

At about 12.45am, we headed back to Vivo where the car was parked. First to drive Viv home then my niece to my place. Somehow along the way where there was certain time constraint to get my niece home, I was cheesed off by two taxis. One in front of me and the other on my right which are going @ a slow rate. I curse n swear n step on the gas n overtook them on the left lane. @ that time, V was concerned that I may scare the shit out of my niece. She tried to calm me down but ended up cheese off by my split second burst of anger on the taxi drivers. Throughout the journey, we were not talking...When we reached her place n we stepped out of the car, I know she is angry @ me and ask her what is it. This is the time where I know it was because of the taxis issue. I apologize to her on the way to her door where we say good night.


On the way back home, I should have be more tactful in handling the situation where I need to balance the time constraint that my niece have and the way I was being blocked by the two taxis. Due to this, I screwed up the lovely & wonderful evening that the 3 of us had. (5 hours of wonderful time spoil by 5 secs of anger)

When I reached home, as usual, I sms her that I'm home safely @ the same time apologized for my action again.


This is the best part, when a person apologize and he or she is really sincere, the best thing they can get for an answer is you are forgiven. & I've got it. I am so blessed to have got to know such an understanding and loving person.

THANK YOU Viv. I appreciate your gracious Big hearted forgiven and tolerance toward my actions despised the fact that you are not 100% well accompany by the pressure you had in your work. I should be more understanding taking into the consideration on all this.

Well, all well ends well and it can be achieved with few things, understanding from both parties, forgiveness from a wonderful person and patience from a hot headed pig (me).

Lesson learned. Till we meet again for better outing. Class dismissed.