Friday, March 27, 2009

25/3/09~ My 1st weekend without my Viv

Viv set off to Japan with her mom today morning to watch cherry blossom. She will be away for 6 to 7 days. Be back on 1st April 09. I already started missing her.
So sweet of her, call me when she was @ SG Airport. Her flight was supposed to take off @ 9.50am but ended up took off @ 10.08am. I know as I was on the sg airport departure info as well as Narita airport info until she touches down in Tokyo safe and sound. I know the plane touches down safely before she sms me to let me know she has touched down.

Well, 1st weekend all alone without her (ever since we dated). I will try to find something useful to do... like, sleep...lol

Oh ya, my lappy was down for a few weeks liao, now I'm using my sis kneetop to enter this blog while waiting for my new lappy to arrive as I have signed up with Singtel Broadboard whcih they have installed for me on 24/3/09 plus 9 mth free Mio TV.

Ok, my sis kneetop is 10" hence I better stop as my eyes are cross now...haha..

Waiting for you to be back honey... ;)

27 March 09~ The day my Mistress of 3 yrs was scratched

27/3/09~ A day to remember. My mistress, Lanceria who was with me for almost 3 yrs was scratched by me when I was behind an alley of a one way road. Viv was with me when this happened. She lead me to this one way street, after going in, she suggested me to do a 4 to 5 point turn as it is an one way alley, I find the alley was narrowed so decided to carry on and hopefully get out of there before another car come from the other direction. Damn, it was a WRONG DECISION by ME. 3/4 before reaching the end, one car turn in. F, I have no choice but to use "R"acing gear as he got the right of way, as there was an old man on my left squatting down picking up cans, in order not to scare him or accidentally bang onto him, I keep more to my right and reverse, suddenly, a loud scratching sound from my right side and I immediately shouted FUCK, that's it, I know I scratched my mistress already. Forward a bit, then reverse again and got into a small "T" alley junction. Did a 3 point turn, then head out feeling so Tu Lan. Immediately, in the car was total silence. Viv kept quiet because she felt guilty by directing me into that alley. My heart melted seeing her like this and instead of her pacifying me,I have to pacify her. She suggested that I go to the gas station nearest to her home so that I can take a look at the damage I have done. Mentally, I was thinking to myself, that's it for the whole left side of my mistress. When we reached the gas station, she refused to get out and see and ask me to go take a look @ it myself. I stepped out, look at the damage and burst into laughter. Open the car door and told her to come out and take a look. She was tearing @ this stage. I gently lead her out of my car and look @ it.

Only my front right bumper was scratch. Quite deep though. She insist that she pay for the damage so I have to agree to her. I laughed is because I was expecting it to be worst. I was glad the damaged was minimum.

Took her back to her place, comfort her, pamper her and sayang her, making her feel better before I head for home.

Well Lanceria, I'm sorry I have disfigured you due to my lousy reverse skill. We will give you a cosmestic touch up soon. hahaha

Monday, March 16, 2009

1st meet up with Viv's M'sia frd and 2nd Outing with Viv's family members

This is going to be a short one. Yesterday, 15th Mar 2009, we met up and had lunch at PS Cafe with one of Viv new friend from Penang whom she got to know through her cousin's wedding. It's strange that this meal is just eat grass and flour. Viv's friend by the name of May were / is a Lawyer (whatever it is or were). However, I was surprised that she do not have the bloddy arrogant stuck up air around her. Viv paid for the lunch @ PS Cafe, then we proceed to Vivo where we bought a bottle of wine and two bottles of mineral water. May insisted on paying for it, so she paid for it. While walking pass OCK, Viv says she wanted sotong head, so we went there and bought 3 sticks, this time, I insist on paying as pai sei also mah.. though I pay for the cheapest one.. haha... Then we proceed to the chop (Principles) where May wanted to tried out some clothes. SO Viv & I left her there and we went to starbucks to get 3 cups for our bottle of wine. When we came back, May was no where in sight. Viv tried calling her but her phone was off, we searched around like searching for a lost little girl. We spend abt 20 mins when smart Viv decided to sms her. She replied saying she was in the dressing room. (Wahh.. who can hide in the dressing room for so long?) I was standing there like guard of honour @ the Istana and didn't see her coming out from the dressing room to get another dress to try.

So Viv went in and I told Viv I will be siting outside cos I shy mah..

After a while, they came out and guess what. She's spend S$500++ in a single shop. I was actually stung. Anyway, Viv was smart and ask her to borrow her receipt so that I can get points for my parking. TMD, the max per day is only 5 points. $50 to get 1 point = (meaning to say, regardless of you spending $2500 or $250 that day, you can only claim up to $250)

To make things short,we proceed to rooftop to TCSS, drink our wine. around 6.40pm, we drove her to redhill MRT station where she was meeting up another friend of hers. It was fun meeting ppl who are humble and nice. Nice meeting her too.

Ok, then we proceed to Great world, KLKK a bit, had our dinner @ crystal jade, then proceed home as both of our human battery almost run out.


Today 16 March 2009, around 5pm, Viv's msn me and asked if I would like to join her and her mum together with her two nephews plus two maids @ Vivo.

I was there abt 6.05pm, msg Viv and let her know i'm there now.

They arrived around 6.30 I think. Her mum, the two maids and Daniel, took the lift to the open area on the 3rd level while Viv carry David and took the escalator up as I was @ the 2nd level to meet me. The way we met and the way David greeted me was like, u know, Mummy carrying the son and everyone was excited to see one another. I took over David from Viv's arm. People who don't know us would have think of that. Serious.

Ok, proceed up to the 3rd level. Saw her mum, the two maids and Daniel in his Merc (run by two maids power) As I was carrying David, I make it a way that she was playing hide and seek with his grandma behind the pillar. After that, we walk around trying to find a good spot for our sort of pinic pattern. Viv asked if I can go to my car and get the yoga mat so that we can lay it on the floor and sit down. I went down.

We settle down later and the maids start taking out the food to feed the children. Viv's mum was feeding David whereas Daniel was being fed by Melanie, one of their maid. Auntie asked me to join in the makan, so of cos, just eat cos I was relatively hungry too. haha.. The egg were good. The chicken too, but not for veggies as I'm not a veggie person.

As you know, kids tend to run around when they eat and as I was trained up "unoffically" to look after 8 kids in my life from a fresh new born onwards, I know how to handle them. When auntie scoop up the rice and wanted to feed David but he was sort of turning here and there, I pretend to say oh, I want to eat and slowly lean toward the spoon that his grandma was holding up, naturally, he will scream and say I WANT.. Haha... kanna con by an old man.. but it is for a gd cause.

George and BeeBee arrived shortly, George show me his new small LED torch which powered by 1 AA size battery. It was pretty cool but I still prefer bigger version as it will be brighter.

Viv opened up the wine and we started drinking for a while before someone saw big ants invading our area. That's where George decided to head for home.

He took his wife, 2 kids & maids home. Leaving behind his mum and sis. We pack and proceed to another corner as the place that we were sitting earlier was in the direction of exhaust fan from a restaurant downstair.

We found a new place and I laid the mat and we sat down, auntie went to buy makan for all of us. She bought, shit.. dun know the name of the food, but anyway, it was nice, so after that, I took the receipt frm her and go and collect the bee hoon which she ordered earlier. The lady asked me where's the 2 plate, I say I will give it to her after we finished this bee hoon. We ate them near the water area where we laid our mat. Enjoying our wine too. The last piece of the kueh, we were pushing here and there so I say, (orr ah pek or shiom)- Black or white. To my surprised, this is the first time auntie was playing this. She thought I was refering to scissor, paper , stone. Well, in the end, I am the one who is different colour so I got to eat the last piece of the kueh.

After makan, Viv suggested kopi so we went together to food republic again. Me go and return the plate where she go and buy kopi.

When the lady saw me with the plate, she says, wah.. if you still haven't come back, I would have gone and search for you. I told her, Aiya, 2 plates only, is it really so serious meh? Next time I leave my handphone number with you then you wont scared that I steal your plate lor.. or you can call another number, easier one. 999.

They laugh and gave me a discount card (of cos, pass it to auntie) as she was the one who paid for the food. After everything, we packed and depart.

Viv & her mum in one car and me in my own and we set off in different direction.

It was fun having a gathering, sort of pinic style where a guy is with her girlfriend and her mum who possibly might be mother-in-law.. haha.. Yeah it was fun. It was great to know that although I am not rich or highly educated, her mum did not look down on me and I guess she sort of like me too. Of cos, Viv told me before that her dad approve of me being together with her on the first time he saw me. She also told me that her brother also says I'm a good guy too.. Even her sis-in-law and her frds say so too... See.. Me so trust worthy and honest. Of cos people who r intelligent and smart enough will know that I am a honest and good guy..haha.. (so proud of myself) But of cos, I know my values and right from wrong so in a way, I also gain their trust from here.

Happy that her family approve of Viv being with me.

Thanks for the wonderful outing dear. Though, tired as I was, it was a fun evening.

Love you dearest.

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Thinking being victimised or really victimised?

This is the question that is popping into my head. How do we actually tell you are being victimised or really being victimised...

Some people may have the knowledge, quick to learn and smart, but some of this people in this group are actually "STUPID". Why? What causes it?

Here some of the reasons;

1) Their quick temper.
2) Wanting to impart knowledge to people but they have no skill in imparting.
3) They also assume people will be a quick learner like themselves.
4) Wanting to help others however expect appreciation to be returned.

Under this circumstances where you fall under their instructions, do you think you are being victimised or are you really being victimised?

My answer, YES, you are being victimised!

Being accomodating, kind, treasure relationship, controlling temper and all the good human nature stuffs. It will be double blow if this is the situation.

Whatever it is, move on and F#$k care all this smart arse... hahaha

Monday, March 2, 2009

Joke of the month

Last Friday 27/2/09. Viv and I had a movie date. After work, I drove down to Vivo and to meet Viv there and have our dinner, KLKK before going for our 9.30 show (Marley & me). I was telling her, maybe next time, we should watch the show later as there will be more time for us to KLKK.

We went in late say abt 9.45. The show already started so we got to use you know, the excuse me, sorry etc to get to our seats. However, when we reached our designated seat. It was occupied, Viv was in front of me so she asked me to back off and both of us move backwards to the steps there before deciding what to do. Opps, she tripped and fall.. Ouch, my heart ache. Ok, then we found corner got two seats hence Viv suggest we just sit there, less than a min, two ladies came in and we are occupying their seats. So I decided to take the initiative to approach GV staffs and tell them that our seats were taken.

Wow, Love the way they handle it. Machaim gang fight where I go to one of them and that one call for another one as a back up. They rushed it like SWAT team. with us behind like their big boss... Then they checked our tixs and turn around. "Sir, your tixs is meant for 9.30pm all right, but it is for tomorrow, 28/2/09".

Wahh!!!! @ that time, I dun know where to hide my face lor... hahaha... So have to handle it with a mature ways by saying "Oh is it? I see... SO sorry to trouble you guys and thanks for your help" The best is, they keep apologizing to us though there was no fault of theirs.

Viv and I look at each other and we laughed our head off.. So I say, in that case, we come tomorrow again lor, she say why not try to see if we can change for a later time, which was 11.30pm. Well, they were nice enough to do the changes for us. Oh well, it fulfilled our wishes where we got enough time to KLKK..hahaha...

Viv was expecting me to have "black face" no point lor cos ppl do make mistakes and since the purpose of outing is for an enjoyable evening, we shouldn't let this little "dust" affect us. She is sweet enough to book the tixs for both of us to watch and I'm going to get mad over the wrong date? Well, Unless I have something really urgent to attend to and she insist that I have to watch with her then that's a different story. However, this story, I believed it will never happen as she is not that kind of super ridiculous person. Well, It was a very memorable one. Love you honey and thanks for everything you have done.