OK, CALL ME STUPID, CALL ME SILLY, CALL ME NARROW MIND, PETTY OR WHATEVER, I DUN GIVE A SHIT! Just wanna pour my frustration and anger here!
Normally, mom will activate me to help out with everything from setting up the candles to burning of joss sticks to praying to burning.
Today, I don't know for what F reason/s, my BIL want to merge the offering he got for his father, mother etc.. His entire family join in the process. Worst still, one of them is not a sincere in praying, her mentality is just to play with fire.
As the public bin for burning is limited, all of them including my mom gather round it to burn the paper stuffs that was meant for the dead. As we have about 6 sets of offerings for 5 love ones excluding 3 sets from my BIL's side, I decided not to crowd in together and wait till the offering meant for MY DAD!
Here's the pissed off part...
I guessed somehow or another, my buay song was written on my face cos i HATE waiting especially when one of them is actually "playing not praying", my mom suddenly just say hey B ah, ok liao, thank Q, I was shocked! After that, the same thing came out from my sis's mouth Thanks!.
NAI BEI, Hello, what is he F meaning of this??? Helped them carry the things down, set up the things, pray and F off is it??? half way through the process..... SIGH...
Actually, wanted to bath 1st before going over to Viv's place, but to avoid facing all of them and instead of showing the buay song face to Tu Lan face, I packed my stuffs and left home within 5 mins.
On my way, msg my darling and preamp her that I was just pissed off by some ppl hence my mood will be affected. She was very understanding. When I reached her home, I've received a big hug from her in her room. Told her to read this blog later as I do not want to say it out.
Ok, that's it for now.
Dad, forgive me for I didn't get the chance to burn the offering to you. I'M SORRY!
Friday, September 18, 2009
Monday, September 14, 2009
What a year! You win some, you lose some
This year is totally different from the 37 yrs I had altogether as I had a partner by the name of Vivian Hoo.
Life is great having her around, her kns behavior, her positive outlook in life, the cheerfulness that was inbuilt her and last but not least, the love, care and concern for me is sooooo ....... (no word to describe)hahhaah...
This is the thing that I consider that I won. I won her heart!
However, the things that I now lost which I have no idea how did that happened was my health.
First, I quit smoking, which by right I should be healthier. However, I might be worst than now if I were to carry on smoking.
Second, I seem to fall sick easily especially this year 2009. Suspect it could be due to the fengshui of my office. (You know, like 8 words don't match and curse one another?)
Bottom line, I guess I still love this year as my winning is still better because when I lost, my winning will come and pacify and sayang me.
I just have to drink more healthy stuffs, exercise more so that whatever I may have lost this year, it will not happen as often next year although the chances of losing is greater when the numeric figure in age grows.
Well, Why am I blogging today? Was on MC for today and tomorrow because I'm sick! Anal leakage!
Things that I've done today;
1) Clear some of the shit that my buddy left behind. Still got tons to clear. Fortunately, I have Viv by my side who voluntarily help me out. (physically, mentally, and financially) Honestly, I feel so damn bad though she will tell me don't be. But still... you know.... Well, Thanks Darling for your support, we will settle ourselves once this shit is done. I promise you.
2)Go wash my maid. Been a long time since I last done so. Felt so sorry that she has been serving me faithfully and yet I have not done my part as the employer to treat her well by checking how is she doing, clean her up when she is dirty etc... (Finally, got the chance to do so.) Will get Viv involve when the chance arises. ;)
Oh Crap, is that all I've done today?? So inefficient. Oh hack, who cares, as long as I feel that I did a bit of things which can help me move forward, I should be happy.
Ok, That's all for now. Till next time when I blog, which I have no idea when...hahha... ciao!
Life is great having her around, her kns behavior, her positive outlook in life, the cheerfulness that was inbuilt her and last but not least, the love, care and concern for me is sooooo ....... (no word to describe)hahhaah...
This is the thing that I consider that I won. I won her heart!
However, the things that I now lost which I have no idea how did that happened was my health.
First, I quit smoking, which by right I should be healthier. However, I might be worst than now if I were to carry on smoking.
Second, I seem to fall sick easily especially this year 2009. Suspect it could be due to the fengshui of my office. (You know, like 8 words don't match and curse one another?)
Bottom line, I guess I still love this year as my winning is still better because when I lost, my winning will come and pacify and sayang me.
I just have to drink more healthy stuffs, exercise more so that whatever I may have lost this year, it will not happen as often next year although the chances of losing is greater when the numeric figure in age grows.
Well, Why am I blogging today? Was on MC for today and tomorrow because I'm sick! Anal leakage!
Things that I've done today;
1) Clear some of the shit that my buddy left behind. Still got tons to clear. Fortunately, I have Viv by my side who voluntarily help me out. (physically, mentally, and financially) Honestly, I feel so damn bad though she will tell me don't be. But still... you know.... Well, Thanks Darling for your support, we will settle ourselves once this shit is done. I promise you.
2)Go wash my maid. Been a long time since I last done so. Felt so sorry that she has been serving me faithfully and yet I have not done my part as the employer to treat her well by checking how is she doing, clean her up when she is dirty etc... (Finally, got the chance to do so.) Will get Viv involve when the chance arises. ;)
Oh Crap, is that all I've done today?? So inefficient. Oh hack, who cares, as long as I feel that I did a bit of things which can help me move forward, I should be happy.
Ok, That's all for now. Till next time when I blog, which I have no idea when...hahha... ciao!
Friday, July 3, 2009
3rd July 2009 @ Brewerkz (Riversidepoint)
Such a crazy guy. Sitting @ Brewerkz, logging on to their free wifi and blogging while waiting for my dearest to finish her work.
Time now is 6.40. SHe should be coming down @ abt 7 but I give her extra 1/2 hr....... 7.30.. Haha
Well, it's a good location, I'm trying to find a new job, blogging, drinking beer and my eyes are wondering around..heheee..WOw.. chio bu...hahha..
Having said that, Just to recap, on 21 June @ P.Ubin with my family. Viv is such a wonderful gal that she blend in so well with everyone. Doubt I have the ablility to do so.. we had a wonderful time together with everyone.
I really felt helpless when Viv is bitching about her work. The only thing as her boyfriend is to support in every way I can. By showering her with extra care & concern, but Viv, if you are reading this, don't do it frequently as my energy level is limited..hahah.. :)
Oh ya, Damn recalling bad incident. Trying to be the perfectionist and good driver, we had sort of a unhappy time when her mom wanted to go Plaza Sing for some appt. For those who knows me, I love driving fast, but her mom's concern is safety, hence I decided to get Viv to drive so that her mom won't nag nag nag.... haha...
But when Viv behind the wheel, my unhappiness shown when she stopped @ the yellow box twice. For me, if I see that, I would have stare at the other driver, but since I am in the car that was in the yellow box, I felt that I was the one committing it, hence automatically show the pai sei action... This trigger unhappiness to Viv.
Honestly, when it comes to argue or quarrel or explaining my actions or whatever shit that involves unhappiness... I'm sucks at it.
I made her cry behind her shade because she was hurt by my paisei actions.
There were this comment made from her and myself..
Viv: Next time I won't drive your car.
Me: Next time I won't sit in the car you drive.
However, thinking back, I would say it was a 50 -50 kind of expectation from each other.
My expectation, expect her to drive like me,
Her expectation, ...I don't know...haha
Anyway, I'm glad that we resolved this disagreement in a very peaceful way. (Reasons, we love each and appreciate each other very much)
Oh well, despite that incident, we still have a wonderful relationship together.
Time now is 7.00pm. she called me earlier @ 6.50pm saying her boss wants more things from her and asked if I wanna go up to her office. I told her I will let her know if I wanna go up. Cos I know her, If I go up, she will be more nervous and panic becos of my presence.
I guess I will just have to order another beer and carry on waiting for her...hahaha..
Happy TGIF!!! ;)
Time now is 6.40. SHe should be coming down @ abt 7 but I give her extra 1/2 hr....... 7.30.. Haha
Well, it's a good location, I'm trying to find a new job, blogging, drinking beer and my eyes are wondering around..heheee..WOw.. chio bu...hahha..
Having said that, Just to recap, on 21 June @ P.Ubin with my family. Viv is such a wonderful gal that she blend in so well with everyone. Doubt I have the ablility to do so.. we had a wonderful time together with everyone.
I really felt helpless when Viv is bitching about her work. The only thing as her boyfriend is to support in every way I can. By showering her with extra care & concern, but Viv, if you are reading this, don't do it frequently as my energy level is limited..hahah.. :)
Oh ya, Damn recalling bad incident. Trying to be the perfectionist and good driver, we had sort of a unhappy time when her mom wanted to go Plaza Sing for some appt. For those who knows me, I love driving fast, but her mom's concern is safety, hence I decided to get Viv to drive so that her mom won't nag nag nag.... haha...
But when Viv behind the wheel, my unhappiness shown when she stopped @ the yellow box twice. For me, if I see that, I would have stare at the other driver, but since I am in the car that was in the yellow box, I felt that I was the one committing it, hence automatically show the pai sei action... This trigger unhappiness to Viv.
Honestly, when it comes to argue or quarrel or explaining my actions or whatever shit that involves unhappiness... I'm sucks at it.
I made her cry behind her shade because she was hurt by my paisei actions.
There were this comment made from her and myself..
Viv: Next time I won't drive your car.
Me: Next time I won't sit in the car you drive.
However, thinking back, I would say it was a 50 -50 kind of expectation from each other.
My expectation, expect her to drive like me,
Her expectation, ...I don't know...haha
Anyway, I'm glad that we resolved this disagreement in a very peaceful way. (Reasons, we love each and appreciate each other very much)
Oh well, despite that incident, we still have a wonderful relationship together.
Time now is 7.00pm. she called me earlier @ 6.50pm saying her boss wants more things from her and asked if I wanna go up to her office. I told her I will let her know if I wanna go up. Cos I know her, If I go up, she will be more nervous and panic becos of my presence.
I guess I will just have to order another beer and carry on waiting for her...hahaha..
Happy TGIF!!! ;)
Friday, May 15, 2009
15th May 2009 and before that.
Wow, been a long while since I last blog.
Well, May things happened this few mouths. I will try to see if I'm able to remember and make it short.
Maybe counting backward is easier. ok.
14th May ~ Brainless toilet contractor
1) Started to hack the Kitchen toilet on 11th May. Removed the bowl, the door and tiles. Flatten the cement surface.
2) Put on a layer of water proof sealing before they lay the tiles on 12th May.
3) Installed the new toilet bowl and necessary pipping on 13th May.
4) On 14th May, They began to hack the master bedroom toilet without installing the door for the kitchen toilet. Mum called me. I called up the contractor's office and asked them. This lady told me the instruction was to install a door, but that is meant for the master bedroom one. WTF, that contractor who came that day measured the kitchen toilet, told me to removed it and replaced with another door now tell me the door is meant for the room one??? Who in the right frame of mind would asked to remove the door and do not want to install another one. No choice but to F them.
Assigned this job to my sis who was on leave and at home helping me to monitor them.
She did hell of a good job pushing and screwing them. Wow, I'm impressed. She did mentioned to them. If the door is not here by 4pm, then we will not pay a single cents. Guess what, the joker came with the door at 3.45pm. My sis was disappointed and asked them, why you come so early har? The guy replied, orrh.. cos office tell me I have to be here by 4pm...haha...
Bedroom toilet should finished by this sat 16th May. NO MORE BATHTUB!!! sob sob...
13th May ~ My dearest sister Doris birthday.
1) Viv secured an interview for job. It ended around 7+pm. She took a cab and spend $20+ for it just to join us for a simple celebration for Doris.
2) MRT malfunction, forcing Mavis & Hawker to alight @ AMK & took a cab back to join us.
3) Francis's car, battery flat. No choice, he got to grab a bus and rushed down from Woodlands.
Overall, despite all these, we managed to have a happy and simple celebration for Doris.
Make this real short.
In the month of April & May, Viv helped me a lot to settle the mess that we (Lawrence, Kevin and myself made in the year 2003)
In short, her efforts, support in term of moral and financially will not be forgotten. Now got to see what else I need to do to get this settle fast and have a piece of mind.
Thank you very much for your support and help darling.
That's it for now...
Well, May things happened this few mouths. I will try to see if I'm able to remember and make it short.
Maybe counting backward is easier. ok.
14th May ~ Brainless toilet contractor
1) Started to hack the Kitchen toilet on 11th May. Removed the bowl, the door and tiles. Flatten the cement surface.
2) Put on a layer of water proof sealing before they lay the tiles on 12th May.
3) Installed the new toilet bowl and necessary pipping on 13th May.
4) On 14th May, They began to hack the master bedroom toilet without installing the door for the kitchen toilet. Mum called me. I called up the contractor's office and asked them. This lady told me the instruction was to install a door, but that is meant for the master bedroom one. WTF, that contractor who came that day measured the kitchen toilet, told me to removed it and replaced with another door now tell me the door is meant for the room one??? Who in the right frame of mind would asked to remove the door and do not want to install another one. No choice but to F them.
Assigned this job to my sis who was on leave and at home helping me to monitor them.
She did hell of a good job pushing and screwing them. Wow, I'm impressed. She did mentioned to them. If the door is not here by 4pm, then we will not pay a single cents. Guess what, the joker came with the door at 3.45pm. My sis was disappointed and asked them, why you come so early har? The guy replied, orrh.. cos office tell me I have to be here by 4pm...haha...
Bedroom toilet should finished by this sat 16th May. NO MORE BATHTUB!!! sob sob...
13th May ~ My dearest sister Doris birthday.
1) Viv secured an interview for job. It ended around 7+pm. She took a cab and spend $20+ for it just to join us for a simple celebration for Doris.
2) MRT malfunction, forcing Mavis & Hawker to alight @ AMK & took a cab back to join us.
3) Francis's car, battery flat. No choice, he got to grab a bus and rushed down from Woodlands.
Overall, despite all these, we managed to have a happy and simple celebration for Doris.
Make this real short.
In the month of April & May, Viv helped me a lot to settle the mess that we (Lawrence, Kevin and myself made in the year 2003)
In short, her efforts, support in term of moral and financially will not be forgotten. Now got to see what else I need to do to get this settle fast and have a piece of mind.
Thank you very much for your support and help darling.
That's it for now...
Friday, March 27, 2009
25/3/09~ My 1st weekend without my Viv
Viv set off to Japan with her mom today morning to watch cherry blossom. She will be away for 6 to 7 days. Be back on 1st April 09. I already started missing her.
So sweet of her, call me when she was @ SG Airport. Her flight was supposed to take off @ 9.50am but ended up took off @ 10.08am. I know as I was on the sg airport departure info as well as Narita airport info until she touches down in Tokyo safe and sound. I know the plane touches down safely before she sms me to let me know she has touched down.
Well, 1st weekend all alone without her (ever since we dated). I will try to find something useful to do... like, sleep...lol
Oh ya, my lappy was down for a few weeks liao, now I'm using my sis kneetop to enter this blog while waiting for my new lappy to arrive as I have signed up with Singtel Broadboard whcih they have installed for me on 24/3/09 plus 9 mth free Mio TV.
Ok, my sis kneetop is 10" hence I better stop as my eyes are cross now...haha..
Waiting for you to be back honey... ;)
So sweet of her, call me when she was @ SG Airport. Her flight was supposed to take off @ 9.50am but ended up took off @ 10.08am. I know as I was on the sg airport departure info as well as Narita airport info until she touches down in Tokyo safe and sound. I know the plane touches down safely before she sms me to let me know she has touched down.
Well, 1st weekend all alone without her (ever since we dated). I will try to find something useful to do... like, sleep...lol
Oh ya, my lappy was down for a few weeks liao, now I'm using my sis kneetop to enter this blog while waiting for my new lappy to arrive as I have signed up with Singtel Broadboard whcih they have installed for me on 24/3/09 plus 9 mth free Mio TV.
Ok, my sis kneetop is 10" hence I better stop as my eyes are cross now...haha..
Waiting for you to be back honey... ;)
27 March 09~ The day my Mistress of 3 yrs was scratched
27/3/09~ A day to remember. My mistress, Lanceria who was with me for almost 3 yrs was scratched by me when I was behind an alley of a one way road. Viv was with me when this happened. She lead me to this one way street, after going in, she suggested me to do a 4 to 5 point turn as it is an one way alley, I find the alley was narrowed so decided to carry on and hopefully get out of there before another car come from the other direction. Damn, it was a WRONG DECISION by ME. 3/4 before reaching the end, one car turn in. F, I have no choice but to use "R"acing gear as he got the right of way, as there was an old man on my left squatting down picking up cans, in order not to scare him or accidentally bang onto him, I keep more to my right and reverse, suddenly, a loud scratching sound from my right side and I immediately shouted FUCK, that's it, I know I scratched my mistress already. Forward a bit, then reverse again and got into a small "T" alley junction. Did a 3 point turn, then head out feeling so Tu Lan. Immediately, in the car was total silence. Viv kept quiet because she felt guilty by directing me into that alley. My heart melted seeing her like this and instead of her pacifying me,I have to pacify her. She suggested that I go to the gas station nearest to her home so that I can take a look at the damage I have done. Mentally, I was thinking to myself, that's it for the whole left side of my mistress. When we reached the gas station, she refused to get out and see and ask me to go take a look @ it myself. I stepped out, look at the damage and burst into laughter. Open the car door and told her to come out and take a look. She was tearing @ this stage. I gently lead her out of my car and look @ it.
Only my front right bumper was scratch. Quite deep though. She insist that she pay for the damage so I have to agree to her. I laughed is because I was expecting it to be worst. I was glad the damaged was minimum.
Took her back to her place, comfort her, pamper her and sayang her, making her feel better before I head for home.
Well Lanceria, I'm sorry I have disfigured you due to my lousy reverse skill. We will give you a cosmestic touch up soon. hahaha
Only my front right bumper was scratch. Quite deep though. She insist that she pay for the damage so I have to agree to her. I laughed is because I was expecting it to be worst. I was glad the damaged was minimum.
Took her back to her place, comfort her, pamper her and sayang her, making her feel better before I head for home.
Well Lanceria, I'm sorry I have disfigured you due to my lousy reverse skill. We will give you a cosmestic touch up soon. hahaha
Monday, March 16, 2009
1st meet up with Viv's M'sia frd and 2nd Outing with Viv's family members
This is going to be a short one. Yesterday, 15th Mar 2009, we met up and had lunch at PS Cafe with one of Viv new friend from Penang whom she got to know through her cousin's wedding. It's strange that this meal is just eat grass and flour. Viv's friend by the name of May were / is a Lawyer (whatever it is or were). However, I was surprised that she do not have the bloddy arrogant stuck up air around her. Viv paid for the lunch @ PS Cafe, then we proceed to Vivo where we bought a bottle of wine and two bottles of mineral water. May insisted on paying for it, so she paid for it. While walking pass OCK, Viv says she wanted sotong head, so we went there and bought 3 sticks, this time, I insist on paying as pai sei also mah.. though I pay for the cheapest one.. haha... Then we proceed to the chop (Principles) where May wanted to tried out some clothes. SO Viv & I left her there and we went to starbucks to get 3 cups for our bottle of wine. When we came back, May was no where in sight. Viv tried calling her but her phone was off, we searched around like searching for a lost little girl. We spend abt 20 mins when smart Viv decided to sms her. She replied saying she was in the dressing room. (Wahh.. who can hide in the dressing room for so long?) I was standing there like guard of honour @ the Istana and didn't see her coming out from the dressing room to get another dress to try.
So Viv went in and I told Viv I will be siting outside cos I shy mah..
After a while, they came out and guess what. She's spend S$500++ in a single shop. I was actually stung. Anyway, Viv was smart and ask her to borrow her receipt so that I can get points for my parking. TMD, the max per day is only 5 points. $50 to get 1 point = (meaning to say, regardless of you spending $2500 or $250 that day, you can only claim up to $250)
To make things short,we proceed to rooftop to TCSS, drink our wine. around 6.40pm, we drove her to redhill MRT station where she was meeting up another friend of hers. It was fun meeting ppl who are humble and nice. Nice meeting her too.
Ok, then we proceed to Great world, KLKK a bit, had our dinner @ crystal jade, then proceed home as both of our human battery almost run out.
Today 16 March 2009, around 5pm, Viv's msn me and asked if I would like to join her and her mum together with her two nephews plus two maids @ Vivo.
I was there abt 6.05pm, msg Viv and let her know i'm there now.
They arrived around 6.30 I think. Her mum, the two maids and Daniel, took the lift to the open area on the 3rd level while Viv carry David and took the escalator up as I was @ the 2nd level to meet me. The way we met and the way David greeted me was like, u know, Mummy carrying the son and everyone was excited to see one another. I took over David from Viv's arm. People who don't know us would have think of that. Serious.
Ok, proceed up to the 3rd level. Saw her mum, the two maids and Daniel in his Merc (run by two maids power) As I was carrying David, I make it a way that she was playing hide and seek with his grandma behind the pillar. After that, we walk around trying to find a good spot for our sort of pinic pattern. Viv asked if I can go to my car and get the yoga mat so that we can lay it on the floor and sit down. I went down.
We settle down later and the maids start taking out the food to feed the children. Viv's mum was feeding David whereas Daniel was being fed by Melanie, one of their maid. Auntie asked me to join in the makan, so of cos, just eat cos I was relatively hungry too. haha.. The egg were good. The chicken too, but not for veggies as I'm not a veggie person.
As you know, kids tend to run around when they eat and as I was trained up "unoffically" to look after 8 kids in my life from a fresh new born onwards, I know how to handle them. When auntie scoop up the rice and wanted to feed David but he was sort of turning here and there, I pretend to say oh, I want to eat and slowly lean toward the spoon that his grandma was holding up, naturally, he will scream and say I WANT.. Haha... kanna con by an old man.. but it is for a gd cause.
George and BeeBee arrived shortly, George show me his new small LED torch which powered by 1 AA size battery. It was pretty cool but I still prefer bigger version as it will be brighter.
Viv opened up the wine and we started drinking for a while before someone saw big ants invading our area. That's where George decided to head for home.
He took his wife, 2 kids & maids home. Leaving behind his mum and sis. We pack and proceed to another corner as the place that we were sitting earlier was in the direction of exhaust fan from a restaurant downstair.
We found a new place and I laid the mat and we sat down, auntie went to buy makan for all of us. She bought, shit.. dun know the name of the food, but anyway, it was nice, so after that, I took the receipt frm her and go and collect the bee hoon which she ordered earlier. The lady asked me where's the 2 plate, I say I will give it to her after we finished this bee hoon. We ate them near the water area where we laid our mat. Enjoying our wine too. The last piece of the kueh, we were pushing here and there so I say, (orr ah pek or shiom)- Black or white. To my surprised, this is the first time auntie was playing this. She thought I was refering to scissor, paper , stone. Well, in the end, I am the one who is different colour so I got to eat the last piece of the kueh.
After makan, Viv suggested kopi so we went together to food republic again. Me go and return the plate where she go and buy kopi.
When the lady saw me with the plate, she says, wah.. if you still haven't come back, I would have gone and search for you. I told her, Aiya, 2 plates only, is it really so serious meh? Next time I leave my handphone number with you then you wont scared that I steal your plate lor.. or you can call another number, easier one. 999.
They laugh and gave me a discount card (of cos, pass it to auntie) as she was the one who paid for the food. After everything, we packed and depart.
Viv & her mum in one car and me in my own and we set off in different direction.
It was fun having a gathering, sort of pinic style where a guy is with her girlfriend and her mum who possibly might be mother-in-law.. haha.. Yeah it was fun. It was great to know that although I am not rich or highly educated, her mum did not look down on me and I guess she sort of like me too. Of cos, Viv told me before that her dad approve of me being together with her on the first time he saw me. She also told me that her brother also says I'm a good guy too.. Even her sis-in-law and her frds say so too... See.. Me so trust worthy and honest. Of cos people who r intelligent and smart enough will know that I am a honest and good guy..haha.. (so proud of myself) But of cos, I know my values and right from wrong so in a way, I also gain their trust from here.
Happy that her family approve of Viv being with me.
Thanks for the wonderful outing dear. Though, tired as I was, it was a fun evening.
Love you dearest.
So Viv went in and I told Viv I will be siting outside cos I shy mah..
After a while, they came out and guess what. She's spend S$500++ in a single shop. I was actually stung. Anyway, Viv was smart and ask her to borrow her receipt so that I can get points for my parking. TMD, the max per day is only 5 points. $50 to get 1 point = (meaning to say, regardless of you spending $2500 or $250 that day, you can only claim up to $250)
To make things short,we proceed to rooftop to TCSS, drink our wine. around 6.40pm, we drove her to redhill MRT station where she was meeting up another friend of hers. It was fun meeting ppl who are humble and nice. Nice meeting her too.
Ok, then we proceed to Great world, KLKK a bit, had our dinner @ crystal jade, then proceed home as both of our human battery almost run out.
Today 16 March 2009, around 5pm, Viv's msn me and asked if I would like to join her and her mum together with her two nephews plus two maids @ Vivo.
I was there abt 6.05pm, msg Viv and let her know i'm there now.
They arrived around 6.30 I think. Her mum, the two maids and Daniel, took the lift to the open area on the 3rd level while Viv carry David and took the escalator up as I was @ the 2nd level to meet me. The way we met and the way David greeted me was like, u know, Mummy carrying the son and everyone was excited to see one another. I took over David from Viv's arm. People who don't know us would have think of that. Serious.
Ok, proceed up to the 3rd level. Saw her mum, the two maids and Daniel in his Merc (run by two maids power) As I was carrying David, I make it a way that she was playing hide and seek with his grandma behind the pillar. After that, we walk around trying to find a good spot for our sort of pinic pattern. Viv asked if I can go to my car and get the yoga mat so that we can lay it on the floor and sit down. I went down.
We settle down later and the maids start taking out the food to feed the children. Viv's mum was feeding David whereas Daniel was being fed by Melanie, one of their maid. Auntie asked me to join in the makan, so of cos, just eat cos I was relatively hungry too. haha.. The egg were good. The chicken too, but not for veggies as I'm not a veggie person.
As you know, kids tend to run around when they eat and as I was trained up "unoffically" to look after 8 kids in my life from a fresh new born onwards, I know how to handle them. When auntie scoop up the rice and wanted to feed David but he was sort of turning here and there, I pretend to say oh, I want to eat and slowly lean toward the spoon that his grandma was holding up, naturally, he will scream and say I WANT.. Haha... kanna con by an old man.. but it is for a gd cause.
George and BeeBee arrived shortly, George show me his new small LED torch which powered by 1 AA size battery. It was pretty cool but I still prefer bigger version as it will be brighter.
Viv opened up the wine and we started drinking for a while before someone saw big ants invading our area. That's where George decided to head for home.
He took his wife, 2 kids & maids home. Leaving behind his mum and sis. We pack and proceed to another corner as the place that we were sitting earlier was in the direction of exhaust fan from a restaurant downstair.
We found a new place and I laid the mat and we sat down, auntie went to buy makan for all of us. She bought, shit.. dun know the name of the food, but anyway, it was nice, so after that, I took the receipt frm her and go and collect the bee hoon which she ordered earlier. The lady asked me where's the 2 plate, I say I will give it to her after we finished this bee hoon. We ate them near the water area where we laid our mat. Enjoying our wine too. The last piece of the kueh, we were pushing here and there so I say, (orr ah pek or shiom)- Black or white. To my surprised, this is the first time auntie was playing this. She thought I was refering to scissor, paper , stone. Well, in the end, I am the one who is different colour so I got to eat the last piece of the kueh.
After makan, Viv suggested kopi so we went together to food republic again. Me go and return the plate where she go and buy kopi.
When the lady saw me with the plate, she says, wah.. if you still haven't come back, I would have gone and search for you. I told her, Aiya, 2 plates only, is it really so serious meh? Next time I leave my handphone number with you then you wont scared that I steal your plate lor.. or you can call another number, easier one. 999.
They laugh and gave me a discount card (of cos, pass it to auntie) as she was the one who paid for the food. After everything, we packed and depart.
Viv & her mum in one car and me in my own and we set off in different direction.
It was fun having a gathering, sort of pinic style where a guy is with her girlfriend and her mum who possibly might be mother-in-law.. haha.. Yeah it was fun. It was great to know that although I am not rich or highly educated, her mum did not look down on me and I guess she sort of like me too. Of cos, Viv told me before that her dad approve of me being together with her on the first time he saw me. She also told me that her brother also says I'm a good guy too.. Even her sis-in-law and her frds say so too... See.. Me so trust worthy and honest. Of cos people who r intelligent and smart enough will know that I am a honest and good guy..haha.. (so proud of myself) But of cos, I know my values and right from wrong so in a way, I also gain their trust from here.
Happy that her family approve of Viv being with me.
Thanks for the wonderful outing dear. Though, tired as I was, it was a fun evening.
Love you dearest.
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